The skepticism is understandable Kitty (What a cute name) being that what you described can easily construed as sounding like a pretty sweet fantasy to some, myself included. In reality genuine FLRs are not as they're depicted in porn stories, but can be just as sexy when the element of reality sets in, if you know what I mean. You've got to have the building blocks in already in place before you can build a successful FLR with your SO, ie Does she have a naturally dominant side? Are you prepared to put this into practice 24/7, and before all of that; Is she actually fully into it? There's more but that's off the top. At any rate, congratulations Kitty, it sounds like you're going to have a lot of fun.