Well today I decided to "up my game" so to speak. I was going to go out, dressed and all made up. Then I realized I had a lot to do so I just hung out for a few and changed. Later in the day I had to take a quick run over to the drugstore. I don't know why I thought of this but i grabbed my eyeliner and eye shadow ( a nice shade of blue), did a quick application, and proceeded out the door. Only ran into a few people but one of them was a woman in my apartment building. I was calm as could be. Honestly I don't think i've even felt that feminine when fully dressed.