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    In what ways were you detected or almost detected while in guy mode?

    I mean any mistakes you made/ hints that you dropped or near misses? I'm talking about being dressed as male, no female garments whatsoever on you or near you.

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    Not a mistake but it is too obvious that my chest is not one of a typical male. Not hiding them anymore. Yesterday I stopped at a convenient store and as I was paying I noticed that the checkout guy was staring at my breasts as I was staring at his sparkly blue finger nail polish. Lol.

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    I don't think I've every been detected in guy mode. Even when I chat with women about things that most guys have no clue about (bras, makeup, heels) I've never had a woman wonder how I knew so much about them.
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    Can't say. No female garment on or near me hasn't happened in 15 years or so.
    What hints? Well, occasionally I'll make a reference to get a reaction. Like someone will offer me a second piece of cake at a party and I'll say, "thank you, but my skirts are getting tight as it is". I usually get a laugh and that's the end.
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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    We?re currently on vacation and were going sea kayaking today. We were just going to wear sneakers, and on vacation I pretty much live in them. They told us they would get really wet, everyone except my wife and I had sandals or flip flops, and there I am with pink painted toenails. Thought I would have to come up with something clever, but nobody said a word, and I?m not sure anybody saw. ?Crisis averted?
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    I had a guy in a locker room mention my shaved legs once. A former secretary once commented that I did not remove all my eyeliner.
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    Quote Originally Posted by alwayshave View Post
    I had a guy in a locker room mention my shaved legs once. A former secretary once commented that I did not remove all my eyeliner.
    You should have asked him why he is looking at your legs?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TiffanyGreene View Post
    "OMG, are you wearing nail polish?". A point of clarification here: I don't like nasty looking toes, so i found a color very close to skin tone, and topped it with a matte finish, so it's hard to tell unless you're looking right at it. I've been doing it now for two years and nobody (not even my daughter that lives at home) has noticed. Or at least said anything to me about it. Ok back to story now. After she noticed the polish, i just kind of whispered back "I can't stand gross looking toes with sandals, so i do what i can to make mine presentable".
    You might want to try red nail polish with your Birkenstocks. I have been getting professional pedicures for years and wearing red polish on my toenails. I get many compliments from women. It is such a liberating feeling. I also wear a feminine hairstyle and carry a women's purse. Nail polish of all colors on men is becoming a fashion thing. Google "nail polish on men" and you will see how many men are wearing it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by alwayshave View Post
    I had a guy in a locker room mention my shaved legs once. A former secretary once commented that I did not remove all my eyeliner.
    I keep my body mostly shaved and I am always a little nervous in the locker room. One time a guy had me somewhat cornered and he was obviously checking me out. When my little friend popped up he smiled and gave me a thumbs up. When I occasionally see him now he always has a friendly smile for me and takes a look, but has never said a word to me.

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    I don't think I've ever been caught, but there were situations where this could have happened:
    - Being caught wearing my sister's bras
    - Being caught wearing a bra "borrowed" from her at school - yes, I did that on very cold days and with several blouses on top. The worst thing is that when it got hot during the day it was hot because I didn't dare to take the risk of being caught
    - When I started shopping for my own bras, there's always the adrenaline rush in the store and the fear of getting caught by someone you know. I've always been curious to know what goes through the minds of cashiers when they see a man buying bras and panties.
    - Sometimes I like to drive with lingerie under men's clothes. But I'm always afraid of having an accident and being caught by the doctors

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    Quote Originally Posted by Karren Hutton View Post
    Not a mistake but it is too obvious that my chest is not one of a typical male. Not hiding them anymore. Yesterday I stopped at a convenient store and as I was paying I noticed that the checkout guy was staring at my breasts as I was staring at his sparkly blue finger nail polish. Lol.
    Oh that so made me giggle with a little envy Karen. Heck I'm '6ft 4 ins size 13 wide feet, hands like shovels. I could stand there in my best dress, made up to the nines and every one present would see a guy. Should that matter? Well alas it still does matter to me and more importantly, to my wife. So I remain in the closset. Love and loyalty are powerful and wondeffull afflictions.
    Last edited by Jane G; 06-28-2022 at 08:26 PM.

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    I once wore clear shinny nail polish out while in guy mode after leaving it on when I was testing makeup ideas the prior evening. I didn't think it was noticeable, but my wife said it was when the light reflected off the nails a certain way. She said they were abnormally shinny for a guy. We did all our errands with no comments or stares from people we interacted with.
    I am just a guy who enjoys wearing women's clothing and there is nothing wrong with that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Misty_cder View Post
    I once wore clear shinny nail polish out while in guy mode after leaving it on when I was testing makeup ideas the prior evening. I didn't think it was noticeable, but my wife said it was when the light reflected off the nails a certain way. She said they were abnormally shinny for a guy. We did all our errands with no comments or stares from people we interacted with.
    I guess my toenails are abnormally shiny because I am always wearing women's sandals, a professional pedicure, fire engine red polish on my toenails, and two 14k toe rings. I have a fem hairstyle and carry a women's purse. In my normal feminine male mode, I wonder if they have figured out that I'm playing for the girl's team? 👡😀
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    1. Left the house wearing the cute dangling earrings with the feathers, something no male would wear.
    2. Again left for work, forgetting to remove my pink nail polish. Fortunately, I had some solvents in the car and was quickly able to remove it before walking in to work.
    3. One of the women at work spotted my ad on plentyoffish; put together the approximate
    area, age, physical description, and type of profession, and assumed it was me. Which of course it was, but I managed to behave surprised enough, for doubt to get into her and her friend's mind, and I never heard about it again. I deleted that ad a couple of days later.
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    The only time I am 100% sure of is one Saturday morning shopping a BOGO sale at Payless; I just finished trying on several pairs of heels and the sales lady and I were carrying the boxes to the front when I ran into a co-worker. The boxes were open so he could see they were super-high platform heels and not work boots or sneakers. He said "Hello" and "Been doing some shopping?", to which I replied, "You can't beat Payless when they have a BOGO!" He grinned a Cheshire cat grin and that was the end of it. He has not mentioned it to this day.

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    Oh to be an English Rose Jane G's Avatar
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    I do hope so Traci.

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    Long hair and painted nails have been my calling card in the past.

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    The only ones I've had have been while wearing something girly. I've had thongs ride up and show while at work, never got questions though. Most obvious was when I had been dressed earlier and when I went out to eat I left my press on nails on because I was going to dress the next day. Hostess noticed and complimented me on my nails. I tipped her as I left 😉

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    I have dressed at some level and frequency for 50 years, long before I met my bride. In our 30+ years together, I have often purchased panties, bras and lingerie for her. She often told her friends that I had good taste in such intimates and was good at selecting the correct sizes. I simply said that I look at the sizes of her current apparel, checked size charts, and read labels at the store. (That was all true, but I did not mention trying them on from time to time.) She also knew that I was not shy about shopping for such items. When we eventually had "the talk," she said that she then understood why I was "smarter than the average bear" about womens' apparel.

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    I dress all the way or not at all. No one in a million years would guess I dress when I'm in drab!
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    I think I've always given something away when those times happened. I either had thinner eyebrows, was underdressed, or even wearing just an A cup bra under a men's heavy flannel shirt. I think I always had SOMETHING that gave me away.

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    On more than one occasion it was very suspicions to my female co-workers that I know so much about female clothes and makeup and specific problems that only those who use them should know. Now I rather not engage in conversations like that.

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    I wear gold hoop earrings about the size of a nickel, and shave my legs in the summer. A few years ago I had hair to past shoulder length. Nobody's ever mentioned anything about it to me, except for my hair cutter and my dental hygienist complimenting me on the earrings.

    People might notice, but they don't say anything.
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    Shaved or waxed legs and arms sometimes raise an eyebrow but nothing is ever said

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    Very nice photo, Paula, but I do see your point.

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    Thanks I appreciate the post

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