Ok, now I'm anxious. A local group is having a LGBT parade Sat and we are kind of friend with the leader. We went to one meeting and they were talking about making political statements and we are not activists, so dropped out of meetings.

Thus, oh they are having a parade Sat, Ho Hum. Might perhaps watch, but most likely not.
And then, and then. Last night wife says we should really work to be in the parade.

Whoa, say what? What does this mean? We have not announced the CD activity.
If we go out Sat, do we say more than have a gay son? Do we dare say, oh, and I CD?
If so, is there a nice way of saying it without just blurting it out? Clearly need to discuss so we are on the same page. But if she wants to come out a bit. What do I say? Anyone have any suggestions? I'm walking blind here and concerned about blowback and ackwardness.

Come out of cave? Ideas?