Lyla,
Thank you. I did not mention the benefits of what we learn through the process of crossdressing, but I have certainly learned quite a bit.
For one thing, my listening skills have improved drastically. It seems women like to discuss relationships, and many have spilled the beans to me about theirs, especially the problematic ones : )
Even so I consider these things as learned benefits more so than how crossdressing impacts me on an emotional level. I understand what you mean though as it is all intertwined and at times difficult to separate it out. Live and learn I say.
; )
Sandi