Its an interesting thing as a new CD. I do like looking sexy, But, Its for me only about 10% of my CD experience, I do dress sexy Friday night and Saturday night and wear makeup. But as much fun for me (Honestly!) Taking the makeup and sexy clothes off and putting on a nightie and frumpy knickers before going to bed. This is as good for me as looking sexy. I feel genuine feminine. Both sides of the coin. The bed time makes me feel truly lovely. Would be interested in comments.
Personally, for me as a new crossdresser myself, I'd say genuine. Me personally it is about being a female as close as possible. That means sleeping as a woman as much as getting all dolled up. I don't tend to go super sexy to begin with when I dress. I dress just as a woman would. That may be skirt. Jeans, or shorts. Just depends.
Like that top and the red hair and band Roxie. When a man I do as a man does, When a lady I do as a lady. But I love this feel of ladies clothes so much, And there is no way I can work wearing even panties. I operate heavy machinery. I love that aspect of my livelyhood. being butch even. But when I get home, Shower the oil and grease off and pamper myself? Sorry but its lovely, I cant resist it.
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Thanks ladies! you are and I mean it, helping me with my journey. Im just at the moment enjoying feeling lovely if even in a sexually less way, If that makes any sense. XX
Trust me when I say at age 76 there is nothing particularly sexy about crossdressing. What there is is a level of total comfort. I can't use the term genuine as I neither want to be a woman or really actually emulate a woman on a permanent basis. I'm not fooling anyone, including myself. I am simply an old man who enjoys wearing women's clothes. What I want is to wear traditional female clothing as much, and as often, as possible. I find such attire comfortable and calming. Probably the one thing I can't explain is why I enjoy wearing large breast forms as much as I do. I suspect it's as simple as the fact I have been a "boob man" from my earliest memories as a young teen (and earlier). They have always fascinated me.
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For me personally, it has to be sexy. Not over the top but looking sharp. I never do anything less.
That said, i have never tried anything less.
For us my wife prefers me to look sexy but not prissy or overly tarty so it is predominantly mini dresses or skirts and tight tops which emphasize my breast forms, nylons are a must of course. It has to be a look a girl could get away with wearing out and about but would certainly grab attention.
I'd like to twist this just a little bit, and say genuinely sexy! Sure, getting dressed to the nines or lingerie is very sexy indeed, but for me sexiness does not end there - it can extend to casual attire too. Who among us has not admired a great looking woman dressed in an everyday fashion ? Jeans, shorts, nighties and things worn commonly can all be sexy - it's a matter of approach and often "blending in with style" as I see it.
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I agree with Kris! Why not both? I know my significant other does it daily.Originally Posted by Kris Burton
Frumpy? Not even in my vocabulary.
Sexy? Well, of course I love feeling sexy. Sometimes I just love getting all dolled up in the sexiest things and feeling THAT feeling. Sometimes I feel sexy just in jeans and a t-shirt. It's more about my mood, my emotions at the time that actually what I'm wearing.
I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !
I'd say that I fall in at about a 90:10 genuine:sexy ratio. I feel complete when wearing things from my alternative wardrobe. I'm definitely in the more androgynous camp and like being and being seen as a guy. The things I prefer to wear feel much more genuine than the more obviously drab items,
Unfortunately, the sexier I feel, the less likely I am to be seen in a good light by my wife.
Wow Bea, I feel like I?m in that same boat. My genuine sexy is not just feminine style shorts or top, it?s very pretty panties, but classy, nylons, professional style skirts. My female is skirts blouses, heels that would be office attire. Not sure if that makes sense, that?s what makes me feel sexy. Hope that wasn?t a ramble!
For me its all about how it makes me feel . Sometimes sexy, calm, relaxed and stress free.The ultimate escape.
I tend to surprise myself. Sometimes I dress just to look feminine and end up feeling (and sort of looking) pretty sexy. Sometimes I dress to look sexy, but only feel fairly feminine. The other day I dressed up to see how a pair of shoes went with the outfit and got jolted into feeling sexy -- and it lasted through the next outfit I tried that day. Another time I put together what I thought to be a sexy outfit but never really felt that way.
I don't go for a sexy look really but have had guys tell me I look sexy.
They say it in a very complimentary way which is fine.
I have had women say wow you look hot. That feels kinda funny.
Saw a woman smack her BF's arm for checking me out.
Debbie, I feel exactly as you described!
Traci
This is how I feel ! So nice to be able to read others have that same attraction, I considered myself straight, love women & womens clothing but, after trying on the feminine things, wow! At first it was a feel of the material, then the look, then wearing nylon silk full cut panties (the kind with the lace at the hip/leg,) all day at work. I could stand in front of a mirror and look at myself fully dressed as a woman and get aroused at how passable I was.
After knowing how sexy I feel dressed as a woman, I found myself sexually attracted to other guys who dressed up. I found myself wanting to play the male role for a crossdresser so they could have that real moment with a man. Hope that makes sense. I would so enjoy treating someone to a beautiful experience, treating them like the beautiful feminine spirit they are. I know how I feel when I?m dressed up & would love to play out that fantasy, and who knows where it leads?
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Hi Jamie, I love the genuine look too. Never enjoyed the racy style. I?m a fan of shaving as well!! Nude pantyhose look way better on shaved legs, not to mention the feel. Hehe
Heather, I did not want to suggest anyone wanted to fool anyone, Not even any lady can be sexy even at a younger age, And like I have suggested already, Its the comfort of feeling like a lady that is the point. If you feel like a lady then I see you as one and compliment you.
Speak for yourself, Heather. I'm a 79 y/o CD and I still can be and enjoy being sexy!
Maybe that's not as important to trans. But, I know a number of CD's who enjoy presenting and feeling sexy!
Natalie, when I arrived here 15+ years ago, after reading all the posts like yours, I excitedly waited for the "woman inside" me to show herself!
But, I gave up waiting for that to happen ages ago.
Count yourself lucky that u have a "fem side"!
"Genuine", to me means dressed in guy clothes. No thanks!
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Sexy is one thing. I can feel sexy in a lot of outfits. I can wear jeans, a turtleneck, and a peacoat and feel sexy. What I get from crossdressing is feeling playful. And that is special!
sexy. the kind of outfits i wish my wife would wear more often
Natalie, thanks for the compliment on the outfit. That is one of my favorite photos I've done. As to the discussion on sexy, I find it all sext in a way. My goal is to be that woman I never was. I won't even go to the discussion of just CD or Trans. I find it complex and ever changing for me. Not sure the forum for that discussion.
Everything I've read about fashion says a girl with an hourglass figure should flaunt it.
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Natalie, I feel genuine feminine
Dressed sexy
Dressed to blend
Dressed for bed nightly in satin or cotton ladies PJ's
Even in my daily underdressing of a nice sexy or cotton Panties.
Connie
Well, I do not own anything frumpy so everything I wear is feminine. Can not say if I really feel or look sexy or not but I do think I look feminine.
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