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    What is the Minimum Amount of Clothing Needed 4 U 2 Consider Yourself Crossdressed?

    I mean, being underdressed only takes bra and panties, but then you're not really crossdressing, right? So how many extra bits do you need to add?

    For me, a fem top and a skirt. If I want to go the extra step, some jewelry and accessories. Padding optional.
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    I was not aware of any minimum amount of clothing needed to be considered a crossdresser, either wearing or owning.
    Is this a case of whoever dies with the most amount of female items wins?
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    Underdressing is crossdressing. Period.

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    I vote zero. A person could consider themselves a crossdresser if the desire/need existed solely in their mind. I considered myself to be a crossdresser even while only occasionally experimenting with my wife?s wardrobe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crissy 107 View Post
    I was not aware of any minimum amount of clothing needed to be considered a crossdresser, either wearing or owning.
    Is this a case of whoever dies with the most amount of female items wins?
    Thank you, but I fear you may have misunderstood.

    I never said anything about clothing ownership. I am asking about the amout of clothing one is wearing at any given time. I expect this may vary from person to person, which is why I thought it might be an interesting question.

    Quote Originally Posted by MonicaPVD View Post
    Underdressing is crossdressing. Period.
    Ok, so for you, nothing else is needed. Thank you.

    But where do you put your wallet and keys when you go out? In your bra?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bea_ View Post
    I vote zero.
    Again, fair assessmenr. Thank you.
    A person could consider themselves a crossdresser if the desire/need existed solely in their mind.
    So, to be clear, to borrow an old phrase, it's the thought that counts? You see no distinction between thought and act?

    I considered myself to be a crossdresser even while only occasionally experimenting with my wife?s wardrobe.
    Again, my question is not about how much one owns. It's about the least amount one likes to have on oneself.

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    I'm not sure, Patience. But, in my case one item does it all!

    My female suit visually turns me into a complete woman!

    I'm not allowed to post nude photos. So, imagine me without the clothing!
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    It depends on the situation.

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    I do not feel I am crossdressing when I am only underdressed in panty, stockings and bra. I must shed my male outerwear and complete my outfit with a dress or skirt and top, makeup and wig. Finally I may be crossdressed, but I feel natural and free. Sadly though I can rarely relax; I am now on the lookout for unexpected visitors and I cannot enjoy the freedom I crave as Rachael.
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    I think a lot depends on the person and each person has their own answer to that. I think more in terms of dressed/fully dressed. I can under dress to make myself feel better, but for me fully dressed is being a woman, so forms, wig, undergarments, and full clothing and makeup. As has been discussed, there are many who feel just wearing the dress is enough, and that is fine for them. I personally wouldn't do that as I want to actually identify as a woman.

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    I crossdress every day if only because I ALWAYS wear lace panties. I do really feel more crossdressed when also wearing nylons and/or a bra and forms which I do every evening. But, at minimum, just wearing panties lets me know I have the feminine side I enjoy.
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    Pantyhose under pants or Painties under shorts is the minimum and what I do every day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ShelbyDawn View Post
    The way I read the OP's question, this is not about whether or not you consider your self a crossdresser, we're all here, so we probably fill that bill. This is rather about what level of dressing you consider being cross dressed. <snip>
    ^this.
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    Although I often dress partially, I never feel fully crossdressed until I don the wig. Everything before that is kind of like foreplay.
    Having a great imagination, when getting dressed in my girl clothes, I get into my mind that I have already done up my long-ish hair into a 'high pony', and that is why I don't see or feel it on my neck/shoulders. At other times, if I feel that it's necessary for me to see and feel it, so the long wig becomes a must.
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    Clothes don't have an actual gender, only a perceived gender stereotype.
    True, but just the knowledge that what I'm wearing was designed with the female figure in mind, is all it takes for me most of the time. For example, a woman's tank top doesn't always look any different from what a man would wear, but just knowing that it's 'a woman's tank top', helps to make it feel normal to me.
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    Patience, crossdressing is what ever the individual doing it thinks it is. If its just panties or painted toe nails under your socks, that's crossdressing if you want it to be.
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    I think back in the Stonewall era it was 3 or more articles of clothing to be cross dressed.

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    If I were writing the rules, the number of items should include at least one skirt and a dress! Womens jeans should not be allowed! Lol.

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    One should focus on intent. If you intend to put on a womans garment but accidently wear a male garment, you are still a cross dresser, due to your intent.

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    I make a distinction between the noun, cross dresser, and, the verb, cross dressing. IMHO, there has to be some mindset consideration given. A guy wearing a feminine panty for comfort or sexual excitement (fetish) with no desire to be or emulate a woman may be cross dressing, but I wouldn't consider him a cross dresser. If a person is considered an alcoholic even if sober for years and years, wouldn't a man who suppresses his feminine desires for years and years still be a cross dresser? Sometimes the mental need is suppressed to the extent there is only the opportunity for a cross dresser to only wear a panty. However, his mind is still geared to being a cross dresser.

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    One swim suit.---Simple enough.

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    Bra, panties and pantyhose - even under man clothes!

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    For me i call it 'girl mode' and it is whatever I want to wear, in hot days can be panties only. As long as there is NOTHING on me that a man side of me could wear (for example beard also counts - I feel generally bad when I have more than days worth of beard, same goes for body hair on legs, arms, stomach)

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    That would sort of depend on what one was wearing. A nightgown or say a one-piece bathing suit is pretty much a complete outfit but it's only one piece.

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    Today I took care of a lot of yard work. It is hot here in Illinois, so I thought that I would be more comfortable wearing mens underwear while I was working outside. I was not only less comfortable in them, but I just didn't feel right! When I was done, I took a shower and put on my usual Vanity Fair panties. Instantly I felt not only more comfortable physically, but also more comfortable emotionally! So, I guess panties are all I need to connect with the crossdresser in me.

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    The way I read the OP's question, this is not about whether or not you consider your self a crossdresser, we're all here, so we probably fill that bill.
    This is rather about what level of dressing you consider being cross dressed.

    I will always BE a crossdresser regardless of what I'm wearing, evening gown, garter and stockings, heels, full makeup, and wig, or naked just out of the shower.

    A crossdresser is just who I am.

    Now being cross-dressed, I'd have to agree with a few others, panties is all it takes and I wear them every day.
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    The handbook specifies no minimum.
    By definition if you are wearing any clothing of the opposite sex you are crossdressed. How far you travel is up to you.
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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