I wouldn't say I put women on a pedestal my CD'ing has however given me greater respect for and understanding of the lives they lead.
There was a thread some while ago about things you won't hear a CD'er say one being "Aren't you ready yet". We know what it takes to get ready for a night out. We know just how tiring wearing heels can be. There's all manner of things in daily life that women have to work that little bit harder at compared to men.
For those of us who go out and about enfemme, especially at night, we gain a greater understanding of the fear of being attacked that a solo female experience. The awareness of being vulnerable.
However it's not all bad. We also gain the understanding of just how empowering it can be when you've put all that effort into choosing an outfit, putting on makeup and then seeing yourself looking good in the mirror. Many will learn the art of impromptu conversation. Talking to a total stranger as you have a shared experience however mundane such as waiting to be served while out shopping.
So I guess I should offer my thanks to women as a glimpse into their world has enhanced mine. Added to my life's experience. Hopefully made me a better person.
