I've been over the fear of going out for many years now.
It was thanks to my friends in our support group who introduced me to the public eye and pushed me through my fear. As to how I look, well of course I put my best foot forward. I don't try to overdo things as we live in a rural area. My clothing is typical of what women here would wear so basically I blend in and that's always what I've wanted. I'm not a wall flower, but I'm not the leader of the pack either.