I am in an airbnb today, lounging by the private pool, light makeup, panted nails, boobs in a tank top, a micromini skirt, panty hose, 2 inch heels, necklace, bracelets and earrings, but with my normal small beard. I did have a woman's sun hat.
I suddenly look up and here comes the owner to monitor the pool but of course she needs to have a conversation. She could not miss the fact I was dressed enfemme. She was very jolly, asked a few normal questions and went about her duties. She kept coming back to ask some questions. There was nothing for me to do but just sit there, no way to hide anything.
I now look back and think about the way she was so animated that she was pretty embarrassed catching me in this situation but I was certainly embarrassed as well. I guess this is what is called "owning it" as I sat there having a normal conversation with this woman.
QZ.