I read posts here and I frequently see someone worrying that they are being "clocked" or if they "pass". It baffles me.
I understand the way it used to be, I am sufficiently old enough to know.
But we live in a different world now. If you go out, if you present well, if you have common courtesy, NO ONE CARES!
Yes, we live in a troubled world, but those fears for safety are for everyone, not specifically us.
I have been out well over a thousand times and I have never passed and I have never been made to feel uncomfortable.
Just take a deep breathe and relax. You are a worthy human being and how you wish to dress yourself is not an issue.