how many Crossdressers actually go out dressed on a regular basis ?

[Debs]

I have spoken to several of our girls here in the uk and it is of my Opinion that not many actually step outside the house, and go shopping, out to pubs and clubs etc. I reckon maybe 80% never go out beyond the house perimeter, maybe Im wrong that is why Im asking your viewpoint. Please Im not judging anyone there are many reasons why some of us girls cant, but as a crossdresser the urge to step outside dressed was always my ultimate goal and I could have never just stopped in the house when I reached the point of being fully dressed, makeup heels wig jewelry and just stare out of the window.

[Yinlingyen]

I go out regularly and it is such a thrill.
I go out both daytime and night time.
Staying home dressed cannot satisfy me completely.

[Taylor Dame]

Being in a DADT situation, I don't have much chance to get out. Recently my daughter and 2 children have moved in with us, so I have an even harder time dressing at home. I now get out fully dressed for shopping about 3-4 times a year. I miss it.

[Claire M]

I don't get the opportunity to dress fully very often any more but when I do I try to include an outing for shopping or maybe a drink or dinner. When I had more oppportu ity I would get out a couple times a month.

[KymG]

Debs does this include getting out of the car?

[Debs]

Kym, bit of a grey area there, lol

[GracieRose]

I go out about twice a week to do grocery shopping, clothing shopping, run errands, and occasionally a stop for lunch. I find myself saving up errands for my next Gracie shopping trip. It's just so much fun and feels so right.

[Pumped]

Pretty much never unless you count wearing woman's jeans and boots in male mode.

[TheHiddenMe]

I just counted my pictures folder and by my best guess I've been out 52 times in 2022 including four days in a row from last Thursday to last Sunday.

I've been in planes, trains (Amtrak and public transit), and autos. Been to two plays and one concert. Shopping, of course. Two times at Pride and a couple of beach bikini outings. Bars, restaurants and casinos.

I write about my outings in the pictures forum and at Kandi's (see my signature below).

I have no idea about the percentage of those who go out, but for every person logged into this board, there are usually 50 to 100 guests. I can only assume the lurkers are interested in dressing but unwilling to create a login ID and post. Those numbers would suggest that 80% who don't go out is actually higher.

P.S. I just checked the site. 520 on line, 19 members, 501 guests. That means roughly 25 guests for every member; this would roughly translate to 4%.

[Aunt Kelly]

LOL! Good one. Touche', girl.

I was going to say "About seven."

[Cheryl T]

I started venturing out nearly 20 years ago and have done so since.
It's nothing exciting like it was at first. The thrill of being out in public wore off a long time ago. I'm actually glad it did as it has allowed me to become more comfortable with who I am and has changed my style from what was a bit showy and attention getting (nothing extreme mind you) to that of the "average woman" and I like it.

[Krisi]

I go out occasionally, but not to bars or restaurants. I just walk the mall or the park and try to avoid having to have a conversation. I am trying to pass as a woman, not be accepted as a crossdresser.

Also, I don't walk out of the house or return dressed, I change in the car. That makes it far more difficult.

[Patience]

The 80% estimate may be conservative.

Twice a week, on average, for my shopping routine. Other occasional errands, too. I have a circle of friends who know and have seen me crossdressed. Sometimes I join them enfemme at public events.

[Michelle Crossfire]

My chances for dressing are only limited by my work schedule, which changes month to month. There are also those days that you can dress, just don't feel like it or are not up for it. Lately, i have had a few more opportunities to dress. When i do dress, i almost always go out, usually shopping of some sort, be it grocery, clothes or whatever. I have gone to bars and restaurants, both by myself and with the SO, and sometimes friends who also dress. Staying inside just does nothing for me.

[jazmine]

I use to go out all the time when I use to live next to a handful of accepting clubs. Something fun to do in the late evening after the grind of life slowed down. But then I moved, and lost the closeness of those “safe” areas. Somewhat recently, I have been going out during the day shopping and whatnot. Even to my favorite liquor stores. They didn’t seem surprised at all when I walked in. Lol. I do remember that very first time I ventured out of the house as Jasmine. It was the most nerve-wracking, scariest thing I have ever done in the world! I still get a little nervous when I go out(specially if it’s been awhile since my last outing), but it does get easier.
Just recently I went out without makeup on. I was away on business, had a LBD & heels with me, and needed a few things from the store. I shaved my face very close, pulled my hair into a high ponytail & took the long walk to the convenience store. I was nervous, but once I left the building, there was only going forward, not back. People generally did not care. Was that a smirk, or a smile from the kid at the cash register? I don’t know. I doesn’t matter, because he was very nice. When I got back, it felt that I had conquered Mt. Everest!

[Carmen]

I go out whenever I have an opportunity to do so. Typically, I am en femme most of the time. Whenever I travel, I usually travel dressed.
As a long time CD, I've run the gamut of those early years, struggling to achieve the most femme appearance that I could.
Here I am umpteen years later...as my attitude towards 'going out' has changed a lot. Now, I'm just being the best version of myself...whether 'en femme' or 'en drab'.
And I'm comfortable with this. Over the years I've refined my look, made several adjustments in my physical appearance, attitude and presentation.
I've managed to blur the lines between male and female, somewhat. My hair is now past shoulder length. I've gained a few inches on my hips and ass, have a waistline and I can fill a B-cup!
Dressing is so very much easier now.

Recently, I've been traveling. I stopped at In-n-Out. I checked my hair, makeup and clothes. I walked inside and got in line. Yes, a few people looked at me, but barely a glance as people will stay within THEIR OWN private realm...not yours.
Yes sometimes you will be clocked, and then most times you won't. Just own the moment. Be as lady like as possible, do your homework, get into your personal femininity, feel the moment, bask in it, but be CONFIDENT out there!

[Ellie52]

I go out when the opportunity arises.
Funnily I find shopping as Ellie far more relaxing and less self conscious than shopping in male mode.
I do go shopping for clothes and shoes in male mode but find its much less stressful when dressed as Ellie.
My wife has said she is open to us going shopping and going to the movies as two girls soon. Looking forward to that

[kimdl93]

I am out in the community regularly, mostly doing mundane things like going to the bank or grocery shopping. Occasionally I will stop for a cup of coffee or a glass of wine. As I have gotten older, I just do not go out at night as often as in the past.

[Elizabeth G]

I'm out and about about once every week or two. I would be out more but this situation seems to work for both me and my wife.

[RoxieChristine]

I also have limited dressing opportunities, but when I do I tend to go out dressed. I've been grocery shopping as well as clothes shopping dressed. I'd be out everyday dressed if my situation allowed for it. To be quite honest, I'd transition if it wasn't for where I am in my life right now.

Roxie

[Jillcder]

I was getting out a couple times a month but recently my dressing opportunities are limited last time out shopping was was early August. I would go out weekly if possible.

[Sandi Beech]

Debs,

I have not kept track, but if I had to guess I would estimate I have been out around 15 to 20 times this year. Being out in public has always been a desire of mine, and I know how hard it is to make that jump. If you are able to pull it off, there is no going back as you well know. It is the interaction with others that makes it possible to really relax and have fun.

Sandi

[Natalie5004]

I usually go out 2x a week.

[GretchenM]

Debs, I think that is probably a really hard thing to put numbers to. Here in my city there is definitely a pattern anyone can see. In a few areas there is an abundance of CD-Trans people, both MTF and FTM. I think we kind of congregate in certain areas where we can feel very safe and welcome while other places we are a rarity. But if one includes those who use the mix and match expression it seems a bit more generalized and I am one of those. Clear indications, but still a bit ambiguous. But Denver is a bit unusual in that it is a city that is pretty Trans friendly. Other nearby communities are much less so and a few are clearly contrary and non-accepting. In my own neighborhood there are a few that are out and about in full plumage. I see them taking walks or going by enroute to a nearby bus stop to go downtown where we are more abundant.

[Paulie Birmingham]

other than one Halloween when i was a teenager, i have never been outside the house in a dress. or a skirt. i dont own a wig.

i have been out in womens jeans, yoga pants and shorts, booties and low heeled pumps and flats, underdress and light lipstick.

i have too many masculine features to try to pass (and i dont care to try) and really dont want to be miad in public. just not a good look for me