Now that the cat is out of the bag and there is no turning back, I'll be looking for opportunities to go out dressed. I take a controlled med for ADD. Because it is an amphetamine and could be addictive, I have to meet with a mental health professional at the VA on a somewhat regular basis. Basically, I see her every 4 - 5 months. She is a psychiatrist and knows I CD. The first time we met, I was underdressed with panties and a lace bralette with A/B cup inserts. She asked if I had a preferred name other than my male name. I told her I really didn't. Here's what I'm thinking about doing. My next appointment is on January 11th. I'm considering sending her a message and asking if she would have an issue with me arriving for the appointment en femme. Of course, I expect she will reply that would be fine. Since her appointment book will show my male name, I'll ask her to make a notation to call me by "Heather" when she comes to the lobby to get me. I'm afraid if Heather responds to my male name, some of the older vets in the waiting room might have strokes, or worse. lol. Anyway, I figure by January I will have had several more outings and won't be quite so timid about showing my feminine side.