Here is a funny story about family dynamics and the loyalty of a great wife.
I told my favorite sister about my dressing last year. I sent photos too. She told me that it is her secret and will not share with my large # of sisters and brothers. OK. so, this summer I travelled cross the country for a family event. I was there for 3 nights staying at my sisters house. On Sunday there was a large gathing of the clan at another sisters house nearby, about 4 miles away. I said let's go. She said NO because of some slight she felt from the party sister a few months ago.
But I was kind of upset that I did not go once I got back in California. So my wife convinced me to call the other sister to tell he why I did not just show up. We had a great conversation and laughed a while before we hung up. Come to find put the my favorite sister is a very controlling person.
Well my favorite sister got wind that I spoke with the party sister and told me that she asked me not to call her and if she could not trust me to keep my word then she would not keep hers to keep my dressing secret.
I told my wife this today and she totally had my back. " Let her tell. Who cares" In todays age nobody really cares except for a maybe one or two of the 8 other brothers and sisters anyway.
She had my back 100%. Now that is a great wife.