Survey Questions:

1. If you revealed to your wife that you were a cross dresser, did you reveal before or after you married?

2. If you revealed or chose not to reveal, did it turn out to be a good decision for you?

3. If you revealed, how do you think it turned out from your wife?s point of view?

With current wife (7+ yrs):
1. Before. Less than one year into dating.
2. Excellent decision. We married 8 yrs. later. Once she accepted that I'm not gay, don't want to transition, and once she was sure I wasn't crazy, she has embraced my CDing, offered assistance, bought me clothes and shared clothes with me. We gone out together as women and been cool with it.
3. I believe she is fine with it, but wishes I wasn't in a female state most of the time.