When I began seeing my 2nd wife, I let her in on my little secret the 2nd time that we were intimate (day 5, 1st time was day 1). She got out of bed to use the bathroom and I picked up her panties and put them on and got back into bed. She came back, looked at me and smiled and said "COOL" (we're both a bit kinky).
She helped me accept myself and my cross-dressing. When I met her I was only under-dressing and now...
Gerri
Peace & Love