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    What would you change about yourself

    We all try to look good or feel good about ourselves but there must be some things you wish you could change, mine are 1. The size of my feet, I take a size 9 to 10 UK so the really high 5 or 6 inch heels my wife prefers me to wear are just not stocked in shops so we have to order them from the US. 2.My height, I am already just over 6ft which is a blessing for my long leggy look but wearing the above heels just screams male, the few times we have been out I've had to wear lower 3 or 4 inch which is slightly less noticeable if its dark 3. My voice, its always been fairly deep and will never be convincingly female 4. My nose is bigger than I'd like. Apart from this list I think I would fairly convincing, you can check out some of my pictures in the photo gallery. Anybody else like to share their insecurities

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    Oh I have several! I have skinny legs, serious bags and dark circles under my eyes, a crooked nose, no eyelashes to speak of, very thin lips just to name a few.
    However, I think all of us have things about ourselves that we don't like that we would want to change. Even the most beautiful actresses and models do. We all compare ourselves to some unattainable role model, and for us CDs that role model is often a GG. Not a fair comparison, and I try to keep this in mind and not let it get in the way of the enjoyment and fulfillment that crossdressing can bring.
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    The one thing I would love to change is my weight. It's so hard to win the Battle of the Bulge.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnH View Post
    The one thing I would love to change is my weight. It's so hard to win the Battle of the Bulge.
    The same with me. then I can wear dresses with a waist.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnH View Post
    The one thing I would love to change is my weight. It's so hard to win the Battle of the Bulge.
    Yeah, know what you mean. I might not pass as a woman but it's nice to look good as a crossdresser and a slightly muscular, athletic build looks a lot better than a slightly pregnant man.
    Another thing is fair complexion and a fused ankle. My right calf has a lot of dystrophy and not being able to point my foot doing high kicks is a bummer. I've also just recently bought a tanning mitt and it's much better than using bare hands or latex glvoes.
    Other than that being a genetic female would be really cool and I would wreak a lot of havoc on society if I was.

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    I would trade my pot belly and ADHD fueled ambivalence about, well, EVERYTHING, for a full head of hair.
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    Well I think I would start with that damned Y chromosome..

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    less droopy eyelids, can't use eye shadow. pfft

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    I would say my waist and grow real boobs.

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    Hair (on my top of my head and no where else!). And call me greedy, even larger breasts!
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    Either to have been born a girl or with zero gender dysphoria and one hundred percent contentment with being male. I could do without all this discontent with my body and the near constant wishes to be more feminine. Nancy

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    Definitely my weight. I so wish I could wear a size 10 or 12 dress; but, that will never happen,
    It's never too late to enjoy a happy childhood.
    Live each day as though it's your last 'cause one day you'll be right.
    I'm finding the more feminine side of me...and I ❤️ this adventure.

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    If I had a small waist and a long, slim neck? I can fake the rest!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

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    I was married to a GG that body issues and wouldn't go into Victoria's Secret.

    I'm OK with my hourglass figure and looking young for my age.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NancyJ View Post
    Either to have been born a girl or with zero gender dysphoria and one hundred percent contentment with being male. I could do without all this discontent with my body and the near constant wishes to be more feminine. Nancy
    This, anything else is just tinkering.

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    Definitely hair. I would love my hair to be like on my wig. To able to experiment with color, style, length... If I could go on wishing... Then I would take a full femme physique with wider hips, slim waist, breasts and a feminine face. But I would keep my male parts to still be a guy and a functioning husband . But if it had to be one part, it be definitely the hair. I would love to have it styled in a feminine way every day.
    Last edited by Misiokaku; 10-22-2022 at 03:01 AM.

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    Shoe size, I'm also a UK size nine or ten so mostly have to order shoes online, although I do not use US suppliers, there are a number of UK based companies.

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    Thanks to time, my eyelids are rather droopy, one eye more than the other. I have actually seen an eye specialist about it. He said it can be fixed with what is basically an eyelift. If it wasn't on my face and so prominent, I probably would have gone ahead with it. The next is my big nose. It looks OK looking straight ahead, by the side profile is not good. On top of those, I just wish I had the same amount of hair from when I was in my 20's. As was the fashion back then, I have had perms (sorry, she called it a body wave), different colors and trendy styles which could be fashioned into a short ladies style. If only Father Time, was a crossdresser. He would be so much more sympathetic to us ladies.

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    A number of things . My scalp I have had an irritating skin condition for last 10 years . Stops me wearing wigs for as long as I would like.Feet UK size 9 . Waistline . Lines bags on face.Nearly everything.

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    Thinner in the face to make it easier to do contouring when putting on makeup.

    Faking the rest isn't too hard. Clothing can and does fit with the right padding. Weight can be lost and with the help of cinchers and corsets a waist defined but things like cheek bones and perhaps a different shaped smaller nose, short of surgery I can only achieve limited success with makeup.

    Oh and yes, slimmer hands.

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    I'm with Elizabeth G or NancyJ.

    I'd MOST like to have been born with the right body (no Y chromosome). If not that, I'd like to have been born happy with the one I GOT

    If wishes were fishes...

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    My biggest desire if I could magically alter my appearance would be a more feminine face. Extremely feminine. More hair/no balding, as well.
    Ideally, looking like the heavily edited (faceapp) version of me I use as an avatar.
    Some breasts as well, but not too large, B or C cup.
    Finally, fixing my messed up spine.

    The rest is less important. I'd like to go back to a smaller waist, but I'm already doing that with relative ease. Less body hair would be nice, sure, but it can be dealt with.
    I'm quite tall (almost 2m), but I don't think it'd be a problem on its own: if I looked like that, I think people would be more likely to think I'm very tall for a woman rather than think I'm not a woman.

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    1. My weight
    2. My shape - I'd love my body to have curves in all the right places.
    3. My hair
    4. No facial hair
    5. Go back in time to 40 years ago (but with the knowledge and wisdom I have now) , and embrace my feminine side as I should have

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    Absolutely. To have been born being either one or the other in every way.

    Quote Originally Posted by NancyJ View Post
    Either to have been born a girl or with zero gender dysphoria and one hundred percent contentment with being male. I could do without all this discontent with my body and the near constant wishes to be more feminine. Nancy

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    Oh where do I start. First my weight, I need to loose 80 pounds. I have been trying and I'm slowly taking off weight. I'm 6'2, I'd like to be shorter. I'd also like hips and a waist. This could go on.
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