Hi all,

I had several outings at a local regular bar in the city I was working in the last couple of weeks. I was well received and got hugs from several women last Friday night. A woman I had met on a previous night waved for me to join her at the bar on my last Friday. Things were not so exciting though. It was another Karaoke night. Around 11:30 she said I should go to another club called Vybes if I wanted to dance. Since it was only about 2 miles away I went over. It turned out to be a Latin dance club. It was pretty busy , but not overly crowded. I got a beer and ended up standing next to a couple of Latino women wearing tight white dresses. They were dancing in place while sipping their drinks at the edge of the floor. They looked pretty lively so I gave them a couple of quick booty shakes and they screamed with laughter at me. So funny. So I showed them some clubbing videos on my phone and they absolutely loved it. I was having fun pretty quickly here; although, I had never been to a Latino club before. The only problem is that people were dancing differently than I am used to. I eventually danced with a young woman who wanted to help me out so she said I will be the man and you the woman, haha. That sounded so out of place but I loved it. She was helping me with my moves and twirled me around. I have to say I am not used to dancing that close either, but everyone was dancing like that so it seemed ok. It really blew my mind she wanted to hang out with me and was way friendlier than I expected. Back to reality Sandi.

I think I am up to 33 bars and clubs around the country I have been to while crossdressed. Now that I have expanded into the non LGBT clubs, I suppose it opens up a lot more places, but I do realize I have to be careful out there. I had at least three different women come over and hug me at the first of the two bars I visited on Friday. Obviously I did not pass, or they would not have gone out of their way to hug me. Passing is a goal , not a requirement in my experience. The only thing of real importance is how we are treated.

Just thought I would share.

Tata

Sandi