Like Gi Gondin, I too am one of the lucky ones. My wife has always teased me with loving comments that reminds me that she enjoys the fun we have as "girlfriend" as much as I do.
In addition to teasing and joking in a loving way about being girls together, she never seems to miss an opportunity to complement what ever femme attire I have chosen to wear.
Her comments are addictive and remind me that I am very lucky to have the freedom, support, and encouragment to become Teresa any time I wish.
I honor my wife's request that I not post pictures.
She does now and it is quite refreshing. I told her about my crossdressing while we were dating. I kept it away from her as much as possible but not to the point that she thought i was over it. We went on that way for years and years. I purged twice which was so difficult. Over the last couple of years she has teased me similar to the teasing you have received and even more by the way she will be a little over the top when applying her makeup, especially her lipstick. I recently survived cancer and she assisted in my make up and photo session. I can now wear bra, panties and stockings in front of her and sleep with a nightie on. I love the teasing and assistance from her. I also work on balance. I pick my moments.
My wife asked once or twice to do her eyelashes for her.
Tease as in telling me I make a very homely woman?
She is not a fan.
My wife has made it clear that she does not want to see me full dressed, NO MAKEUP! I can wear my dresses, skirts, panties and bras and even paint my finger nails. No problem, but the make-up thing she hates. The weird thing about it is when I do make-up she always tells me a better way of doing my make-up. She teases me when I wear a showing bra, she always touches or flips my bra when I'm not wearing my inserts. Shes taunting me, but she usually gets aroused. I'm very perplexed in her actions??? She helps me in so many ways to become a beautiful woman but she can't stand the make-up but she doesn't wear much herself. I sometimes put mascara on and that's fine but the changing of my entire face doesn't fly. She did give me a titty twister the other night. Her teasing me smile 😃
Considering that crossdressing is a taboo topic to begin with, there is no teasing of any kind from my wife. On the other hand years ago prior to my crossdressing, she very often made jokes about my naturally large boobs. I won?t repeat what she would say, but it was often and somewhat annoying. At least it was never in front of anyone. Then one night I went to bed with one of her bras under my PJs and that got her attention when she grabbed one. She told me to take it off and she has not poked fun at my boobs since.
That cured her habit.
Of course she did make a nasty comment to me about 5 years ago wondering what I did to make my boobs so big. That kind of annoyed and hurt me. It is not my fault. Genes I guess.
Sandi
It?s actually the other way. She?ll ask me to help with her makeup as she has always worn very little. Or she will ask to borrow stockings or ask for shoe suggestions and what can she borrow.
The other was like today. I felt like dressing up more for the season and got teased that I must be going to a party without her.
My wife does not tease me, compliment me, or make comments unless it is to mention my bra under my shirt is obvious and I either need to take it off or change shirts so it doesn't show. She's not a fan so doesn't say much. However, she is accepting. I'm hopeful at some time in the future she will become more relaxed in talking about my CDing to the point where she would tease me or make unsolicited comments. I believe that day will come. I just don't when that will be.
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My wife was helping me with running a CCTV cable in a dollar store the other night. At one point she teased me by pointing out the leggings in the clothing department. I said "Nah, that's OK, I get mine cheaper than that!" (I.e. the thrift store outlet, where everything sells for $1.59/lb).
This sounds so delightful and a bit erotic if I?m being honest.
Michelle, reading your post again, I realized that something remarkable about your wife's behavior, apart from the wit, is that she's expressing a very confident femininity with these remarks. Usually, the fact that hubby wears makeup, hose or dresses is blurring the gender lines to a point where the very role of the wife as the woman in the couple isn't granted anymore. Here, her remarks full of poise seem to denote that she has no doubts about who's filling that role, and when the occasion calls for it, she is the legitimate one doing what you can only wish you could, had you been a female at birth.
-- EDIT: about teasing --
As for my wife, although she doesn't want or need to see me dressed nor participate, she actually teases me once in while, and she does so by referring to the imaginary female being living in our house that represents me once dressed, whom she named after one of her nicknames for me to which she added a "-ette" suffix, which in French designates something female and small or cute. This ended up with something similar to "La Badgerette". There's a whole lore about La Badgerette, for example if she dresses with hose and heels, La Badgerette will generally sit on the top of our piano to admire her legs for hours on end. You always know when La Badgerette is in the house because of her signature "tak tak tak" walk. La Badgerette lives somewhere inside my head, and takes control when we are watching TV and a woman is putting on makeup or wearing some sexy clothes.
Now to the teasing point: Last time I dressed, a few weeks back, I left a couple speckles of makeup on the ceramic of the bathroom sink. In other occasions it could be some foundation powder. Or a trace of nail varnish on a door knob.
Every time, a little while after the session, often the day after, my wife turns to me with a Sphinx smile and tells me: "La Badgerette has left traces". You see? Not me. La Badgerette. And my wife takes me to where the traces are and shows them to me. I don't think she's trying to help me to better clean the place next time, but rather telling me that La Badgerette is real, that this mythical little creature is actually a thing, since she leaves tangible evidence of her passage in our dimension of the Universe and therefore affects us in this physical world. It's probably also a hint of the difficulty my wife has to imagine me doing what I do, and reconcile it with the husband she knows. And La Badgerette, this separate entity, is a way to isolate and identify, metaphorically, that female part of me.
Last edited by DianeT; 12-19-2022 at 07:34 PM.
DianeT..........Wow.That's interesting .Never thought of it like that.You very well could be right.
If I knew where it was going to take me I probably would have put my mother's panties back.
My wife is great. We have an open relationship. She has B/F and I have a G/F. She wore this sexy little dress out with her boyfriend. And said to me ?you sure you don?t mind?. (Regardless you can?t have this dress). 🤣🤣🤣
Unfortunately, my wife does not tease me about my dressing. There were a few times she teased me a bit in the past, but not lately.
Most notably, she walked into the bathroom while I was washing my breast forms in the sink. She said "Washing your boobs?" I said "Yes." She said "When I want to wash mine, I just step into the shower!"
Krisi
Does it count that my wife gleefully snapped my bra while grocery shopping this week?
We were getting ready to go out to dinner with friends and my.wife was sliding stockings on and said bet you wish it was you putting these on
No, but i had an ex that did a bit of teasing. I quite enjoyed it.
Yeah my SO has never been ?fun? teasing about the subject.Originally Posted by Jade P
No, but sounds fun
My wife did this to me back in September. We had a black tie wedding to attend and instead of going out and shopping for a dress, she actually went into my closet, found a green one shoulder formal dress and took it from me! I hadn't even gotten a chance to wear it yet and she declared it was "her new dress" for the evening during the wedding! Of course, she couldn't wear the heels that went with the dress and it was a little long for her in the back, but otherwise it worked extremely well. The same thing had happened a couple years ago for our son's school graduation - she took one of my Karen Kane scuba material dresses and wore that for the day! Thankfully I don't have to share my shoes with her, and she did notice what type of shoes she should be wearing when observing other women at the wedding, and commented that I have those exact shoes in my closet.
Wifey neither comments, compliments, nor teases.
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Because life is too short not to.
It's ironic ... I finally found a group of guys I fit in with. Funny how they all enjoy being one of the girls.
Wife: Why do you fold your panties? Me: I don't like my panties in a wad!
When we were still married my wife would taunt, not tease. She would call me every name in the book even though I only wanted to wear pantyhose. She would use an overly falsetto sing-songy voice to ridicule me.
Years after our divorce she apologised and helped me shop. She became playful and once asked me "So, what color panties are you wearing? Did you ever think someone would ask you that question? And that you would actually be able to answer?"!
I know that the reason she became supportive and fun is because I was no longer her husband. Many women look at CDing as something amusing or interesting... as long as it's not their partner.
Regardless, I much prefer the teasing over the taunting.
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