Well, it was probably less that a week ago I was deriding the whole MIAD thing. Not the first time. It was also about a week ago I was talking about how I loved my long sweater and leggings. I think I even said that when I was younger I would have worn it for a dress. Over the weekend GF and I were at a restaurant we go to frequently where she knows the manager who often stops by to talk to us. I was still wearing nail polish but was not carrying a purse. She's seen me with nail polish before. I was wearing my long sweater. She says, "I like the dress!" I said, no, it's just a long sweater. She says, "Oh, Okay, I still like it!" and we go on to other subjects. I do feel my face getting red, though. GF and I didn't say anything else about it.
It did make me start wondering if it is a dress. It's a woman's sweater. More of a cowl neck than a turtleneck. It's long enough that I sit on it. So, this afternoon we're heading out to run some errands and I put on my sweater again, but this time I ask her if she thinks it's really a dress, and she said it definitely is. I ask her why she didn't tell me, she says she thought I knew. I really didn't know. I bought it at a thrift store and it was hanging with the women's sweaters and I just assumed it was a long sweater, and I thought it looked great with leggings. This time when I put it on it seemed obvious that it was a dress. Amazing how my perception shifted on it. I did not wear it. I may not ever wear it again, at least not in male mode. All that because now in my mind it's a dress instead of a sweater. It is silly! The only thing that changed was the name of it and now I won't wear it. Also, I feel kind of stupid. You'd think I'd know better. In my defense, though, I have other tops that are just as long, and they're not dresses (Are they? Now I'm wondering!). I thought about it when I bought it, and it seemed too short for a dress. I guess, too, since I always wore it with leggings it didn't seem so much like a dress.
Anyway, kind of funny. The power of a name! Call it a sweater and I love it. Call it a dress and I won't wear it (in male mode).