I go out presenting female pretty regularly, about once or twice a month. My wife knows and though she has seen me dressed a few times she prefers not to so I bring a "drab bag" with me and before I go home I find a place with a single user family bathroom and I go in and change.
Well I was in Target the other day presenting fully female and carrying a tote bag with a plaid pattern on it. It is distinctive but not garish. On my way to the bathroom I passed by a young woman who worked there and we just passed by each other without a second glance. I went in and changed and took off my makeup and came out carrying my tote bag. About a minute later I passed by the same young lady again. Well she must have seen the tote bag and put two and two together because as she passed by she got a big smile on her face! I just laughed to myself and went on my way.