We have three kids, two in high school and one in middle school.
1. Do your kids know? When they were younger, my wife and I agreed we would not tell them about my dressing, and I only dressed when they would not see me. Presently, they have seen me wear women’s jeans and my shaven legs and chest. I also think they have found my heels which are normally hidden behind my dress pants in our master bedroom closet.
2. What age did they find out? If they have concluded I dress, then it was in their early teens.
3. How did it impact their relationship with you? There was no change.