My father-in-law died in December, and my mother-in-law is downsizing. She asked me to choose some of my father-in-law's clothes, and I had to find some jut to be polite. The harder thing in helping her downsize is that she is getting rid of a lot of her own clothing, and there's enough overlap in size and taste that it's a difficult thing to pack them to go to Goodwill when I'd like to be trying them on.