For a while now our normally safe neighbourhood has been exposed to car break ins, car thief, home robberies but worst home invasions, they don't care if your home.
On my last Friday night drive about two months ago I came home and all the lights were on in the house and my wife was on the corner of the couch and a sign of relief when she seen it was me walking threw the door. I didn't want to embarrass her so I didn't say anything but figured she was worried being alone, so I stopped going out on Fridays.
Last night we went to the mall, there was a buy 1 get 1 free sale in a clothing store. My wife asked me if I wanted to do a split, she buys something and I get something for free. I looked around but nothing caught my eye and I told her she should just buy herself whatever she wants and get the good deal.
We went into a coffee shop in the mall and my wife is a very open and direct and asked me straight out what's wrong with me lately, I haven't fully dressed very much and I would have bought half that store we just left.
She told me she knows I'm not going on my Friday night drives because I know she's not comfortable being alone and she believes that even though I never leave the car on the drives it is a great excuse to dress up and showcase some new items. She believes without the drive I have no reason to buy something because I don't have a good reason to wear it. The drive was where I had to look and present my best and now without that I'm probably not even practising or trying to better my fem self.
I didn't even consider that I just thought I was not going on the Friday drive but didn't consider that I wasn't dressing or wanting to buy new things because of that. She asked me to go for a drive last night but I was to tierd and I really didn't want her to stress out. She is such a sweet heart because I wake up early and this morning she asked me if I wanted to go for a early morning drive even though it was daylight already. I thought that was very thoughtful of her. Wow! Maybe my wife should consider changing her occupation, I believe she could be right. Thought I would share another example of life and mind set in the crossdressing life.