Do I want to be seen? Certainly not by family and friends. I think I would enjoy mingling with others without being judged. My problem is I don't do clubbing. Heck, since I was discharged from the military in 1969 I've never been in a bar/club. It's just something I don't do. That leaves interaction pretty much to clerks/cashiers in stores. That doesn't really fill the desire to mingle with others. I'm actually pretty much at a loss how to accomplish this desire but it's not a big thing to me. I'm pretty much a loner in my drab life so I expect I'll be much that way in my femme life, too.