I find the term "sissy" offensive! It's a fetish, dog whistle for some dressers!
That being said, I've tried to appear as a young girl just to see if I could look young and cute!
I see no reason for anyone to feel guilty for trying to look cute!
I don't see anything overtly sexy or fetishy in these. Do u?
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Just not my Style Robbie
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I went through that phase in my teens, Princess dresses and lots of petticoats and bows!
But that's crazy stuff, Right?
"This is ME" I am not CRAZY, I'm just a GUY who likes dresses!
Since allot of men dress up in woman's clothing that makes it a manly thing to do!
Much more fun than fishing.
I do construction like house building and I love CD-ing, what's the difference?
I don't even have a French maid out fit. I love my quite conservative wardrobe. Never really given a sissy type dress a thought.
Never had any interest in dressing up like a little girl, can't see what's the attraction in doing it, actually find it quite disturbing.
hello RobbieGirl,
My wife would probably say "no, that just does not suit you!"
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The Sissy Slave scene is centred around Female Led relationships/Wife Led marriages that enter the 3rd or 4th stage and can involve Chastity play and Cuckolding
(do some light googling but not at work!)
Quite often the Wife will insist the Husband be dressed as a sissy when her Lover/Bull is around or she goes to see her Lover/Bull and may force some Sissy-Bull interaction too
Personally I don't like it, I am always aiming to be 'unremarkable' when dressiing!
Jemima, This is just simply not true. The sissy slave scene and FLR have very little in common. As perhaps one of the only members who is actually in a FLR, I believe you are grossly mischaracterizing this kind of relationship and confusing it with what is portrayed in porn BDSM or extreme FemDom scenarios. A little bit of knowledge gained from “light googling” can be a dangerous thing.
Although there are fetish dressers, and a very small subsection of Mistress/male maid power exchange relationships, there are more CDs who simply favor the look and feel of these kinds of dresses. I think you’d be hard-pressed to find a real life situation where a wife “insists” that her husband dress as a maid. More often, the husband is seeking permission to do so.
I think you have been influenced by too much fantasy.
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NancyJ there are many types of FLR and I agree with a lot of your points, but everyone in an FLR does things differently and to different degrees.
I too am in an FLR, albeit at the light end of the spectrum as my Wife is not comfortable with taking things further so have had to compromise lest I start topping from the bottom.
However, she does accept and agree that the level we have maintained over the past 5 years has improved our relationship, communication and made her life much, much nicer and easier.
Last edited by char GG; 05-19-2023 at 09:07 PM. Reason: Not necessary to quote the post just before yours
It would not go over well with my SO.
I'm not interested at all, and never liked the "sissy" thing...seems like a fetish to me.
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not a thing that interests me in the least
I don't think this would end well for me. I generally just have "girl next door" clothes. Well... I do have a wedding dress, and it actually fits! LOL!
I am definitely not into the sissy style of clothes. I much prefer the professional business/lawyer attire. I do dabble in younger styles but never thst young.
Rollerena (drag queen from the disco era, who would skate all around Manhattan at random times) would certainly disagree! Link to a page with her pics from back in the day:Originally Posted by Judy-Somthing
https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl...wQMygIegQIARBZ
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
I always thought the term Sissy was derogatory and would not wear anything like that. But if I did and my wife saw me, I seriously doubt that she would giggle.
I find it interesting the way many of you speak of wanting to just wear a certain thing. I think of where I could wear it. For example, I've always wanted to wear a big gown with a hoop skirt, something like from gone with the wind. Aside from where I would get one, I have no where to wear it. To me, it's not just putting it on. It's going to some event to enjoy the time in it. It would have to be some specific occasion where it would be appropriate.
This teaches me something about myself. It's not just about the clothes. There is more to this for me. Still not sure everything it encompasses. It's an on going self exploration.
I have never been interested in "sissy dresses" simply because iys a fantasy world for those that want it. One could never go outside and into town dressed as such. Dressing for me is to dress in awomanly blending way, a way in which I can be accepted and not laughed at directly or behind my back
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