Over the past year or so I have had trouble coming to terms with my gender issues. My wife suggested therapy. I finally found a wonderful nonjudgmental , understanding person. Since transition is not a realistic option she suggested I try to go out dressed every now and then without a wig and makeup. As I pointed out in a previous post I did that and it was quite liberating. Fast forward a few weeks later and I feel a sense of peace and fulfillment. Being true to yourself is a wonderful feeling.