My wife has a home health nurse that comes by 3 times per week after a surgery.
I sat in my rocker as the nurse was leaving. She walked by and placed her hand on my shoulder. I am sure that she could feel the bra strap as the hand stayed in place for an extended time. After her leaving, i verified that the strap could be seen through the t shirt. I was feeling good that she did not make a comment.
The next day as she was leaving, i sat at my rocker. I was wearing a much thicker shirt. The nurse walked past. She turned and placed her hand on my shoulder. She moved her fingers about. Was she verifying the bra strap?
My wife knows of my hobby. She placed her hand on my shouder as she walked by and simply said YEP. This was a first for me.