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    Yes very fun
    Yes lets just say a lot
    I wear them only when I'm dressed (which is almost everyday)
    No
    Of course when I'm dressed I love the feel of my bras.
    On line on few occation in a store
    I like all kinds if style bras I like to match my bras with my panties so I have lots of colors.

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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time?
    Of course. First time felt fulfilling, like having a bra and boobs was the way it should be. Kind of scary afterward since I was deeply in denial about my gender identity.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have?
    Yes. 6 or 8.

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes?
    Every time I present as a woman, 2-4 times a week

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing?
    I have, but it never feels right.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house?
    Yes.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online?
    Both

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions?
    For the last 10 years or so, only when I present as feminine. Since I identify as feminine, I feel crossdressed if I dress as a man, so no I don't wear a bra crossdressed.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color?
    Underwire bras with lacy cups

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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time? Yes. First time was a guilty thrill. I was around 8 0r 9.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have? Yes, Around ten, I think.

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes? More often than not.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing? Yes, many times.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house? When dressed enfemme I do, only occasionally as underdressing.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online? Both.

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions? Again, more often than not.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color? Nude, with pockets for my forms. It is most practical under most clothes.
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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time?
    Yes. I'm hooked.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have?
    Yes. About 20.


    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes?
    Just when fully dressed. So just sometimes.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing?
    Yes.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house?
    Yes, when fully dressed.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online?
    Both.


    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions?
    Just when crossdressed.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color?
    Longline in black.
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    1. I decided one day to try on my wife's bra. Though I didn't come close to filling out her cups, I loved the feel of "the hug" from the band. As had been said, I was hooked.

    2.i have my own bras (about 100).

    3. I wear as often as I can, but not every day. If my circumstances were different, I would wear bras all the time.

    4. Yes. I wear bras under my male clothing when I work in the office (3 days per week).

    5. Yes. At work and shopping, when I'm able to do so.

    6.i mostly shop in person, but also purchase online.

    7. Well, I don't really crossdress, I just underdress.

    8. My favorite style and color can be defined as "pretty".

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    If I hooked all my bras together they would probably reach a;; the way around the Block
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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time?

    Yes. Thrilling to a point. Lots of pink fog, but I had no breast forms.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have?

    Yes. More than ten, less than twenty.

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes?

    Sometimes. I have also worn them continuously for days.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing?

    That's the definition of "underdressing", so yes.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house?

    Yes, but only my own.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online?

    Mostly in person, but I have also purchased them online.

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions?

    See Answers #4 and #5.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color?

    Most of my bras are tan, black, or white, so just basic colors. My favorite style is the one that fits!
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    1. first one age 13- natural feeling
    2. many...many...many from sports to underwire to balconette to full coverage etc
    3. Every day as C+ with implants years ago
    4. no....been out and about since 15
    5. Every day
    6. In store and occasionally online when see a pretty lacy style
    7. Wear as essential part each day
    8. LaPerla favorite.....followed by Wacoal/Soma/Bali/Marks & Spencer/Agent Provocateur and new interest in Intimissimi (italian)......love lace

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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time?
    Yes. I was 6-7 and my sisters/moms it was exciting.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have?
    Yes, 40+

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes?
    most days.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men's clothing?
    Yes

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house?
    Yes

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online?
    Both. Even had a fitting in Vegas at a outlet store

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions?
    both...

    8 . What is your favorite style and color?
    underwire - Sheer/Lacy both demi and full cup (rarely padded)

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    1- yes hard to
    2- yes 5 or so
    3- sometimes
    4- yes
    5- yes
    6- store
    7- crossdress

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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time?
    Yes, first time was my sister?s. It felt amazing.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have?
    Yes, several.

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes?
    I try to underdress in one everyday.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing?
    Yes, many times.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house?
    Yes, when underdressing.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online?
    In person.

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions?
    I wear one most of the time.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color?
    Sports bras are most comfortable.
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    The very first bra I wore was my sister?s when I was about 13. I have since worn my mother?s bras before I had my own. Every time felt magical and it hasn?t gone away.

    Presently most of my own bras are a beige colour, but I am adding to them with brighter colours, pink mainly.

    I wear one every day because I dress every day when I am home from work. Sometimes I wear two on top on one another.

    No, not yet.

    No, not yet, only because I haven?t gone out as myself yet.

    In store mainly.

    I only wear them when I dress as myself.

    I prefer bright pink ones.

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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time? yes, it was a long time ago so I don't really remember.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have? of course, i have over 20.

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes? everyday.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing? of course.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house? yes.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online? both but i prefer in store when buying bras as online can sometimes not fit properly.

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions? if i have a bra on i will be dressed.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color? my favourite is my gorgeous black lacy push up bra with orange straps and detail.

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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time? Yes. Nervous, but great.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have? About 20

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes? Just sometimes, when crossdressing.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing? Yes

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house? I have, when crossdressing.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online? Stores

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions? Only when crossdressing.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color? Rear hooks, usually white.

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    1. Of course I've worn a bra! Many thousands of times. First time, I was about ten. It was one of my older sister's Playtex bras (this being back in the 1960's), very conservative style, white. I had to pad it a little with a sock in each cup. She would throw her old bras away as her breasts grew or she got tired of the style, and as the designated garbage 'man' of the family, I gradually collected her cast offs clandestinely and hid them away for private wearing. Being blessed/cursed with gynecomastia, I could soon fill her cast off 'A' cups.

    2. I do have my own. Too many to count. Interestingly, the elastic on some has deteriorated from their purchase date back in the early 2000's, while others of the same brand, style, and color are still okay. I never put them in the dryer, and always wash in a lingerie bag. Living alone, I can always hang them over the shower curtain rod to dry.

    3. I wear one almost daily, from morning until night when I'm lucky enough to not need to go anywhere, other than when I have to go out in public. I consider my man clothing a uniform, that I have to wear to do certain chores. That way I can always consider myself wearing appropriate clothing.

    4. I have worn a bra under men's clothing, but usually only for brief moments when I'm only going outside to get the mail, or maybe drive to pick up fast food. I change back to an all girl outfit as soon as I'm back inside the house. Dresses and skirts just feel much better to my femme psyche.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house? As above, only occasionally.

    6. I only buy my girl clothes online.

    7. I generally only wear a bra when I'm in an all female outfit.

    8 . Favorite is a keyhole style, which I first spotted in a Lane Bryant / Roaman's catalog, then online, when they discontinued them, I found the same design in the national brand catalog, here: https://www.shopnational.com/instant...k-keyhole-bras
    keyhole bra.jpg note: this style fits barrel chested folks well, as I am one of them. That means the shoulder straps are closer to midline than usual, so they don't slide down my arms off of my shoulders. Others with a 'thick' from front to back chest, might fit these well. With a bra on, I'm as thick from front to back, as I am wide.
    I have many different styles, which I wear depending on the outfit. I prefer plain white, as I identify white female underwear as a mark of being female (from that being what the vast majority of females wore when I was growing up.) Plus, it's easy to match it up with other white underwear choices.


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    My answers are given below.
    It was fun to answer them all.
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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time?
    I have worn them hundreds if not thousands of times, like several times a week.
    The first time was very exciting and I envied women wearing it!

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have?
    Yes, I have several bras of my own including corsets that can be used for suspending stockings.

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes?
    I do almost every day when I am en femme. That means several time a week.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing?
    Yes, I have but recently I do not prefer combining female and male clothes together.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house?
    Normally, I do not, but in limited scope, yes. I am a closet crossdresser.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online?
    I do buy using both.

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions?
    I do wear a bra when en femme only.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color?
    My favorite are lacy bras with big cups.
    I don't have color preferrences.

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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time?

    Why, yes, yes I have! I don't remember the very first time, but I remember it was exhilarating!

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have?

    I don't have an exact count, but I think i may have around 2 dozen or so. Lace, Mesh, back closure, front closure, strapless, convertible, I have many different types.

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes?

    Just occasionally, when I dress mostly.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing?

    Yep. Sure have. There is something intriguing (exciting?) going about the day in drab underdressing.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house?

    See above.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online?

    Online only.

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions?

    Usually only cross-dressed, but see number 4.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color?

    I like lacy or mesh and I like my colors to match whatever color I may be wearing for a dress or top.

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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time?

    I first put on a bustier when I was 12 years old and it was thrilling. It belonged to my voluptuous neighbor and I was babysitting her daughter when I adventured into her bedroom. The die was cast.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have?

    Yes, I have a drawer filled with brassieres... as well as a few tucked away for later... 15 or 20 I would guess.

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes?

    I wear most days. It is quite mesmerizing.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing?

    Yes... usually under tee shirts or turtlenecks with an open shirt concealing my curves.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house?

    Often I do... when running errands or shopping. Not generally when socializing.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online?

    I buy online. I'm not brave enough to go for a fitting.

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions?

    I really don't crossdress, I simply wear a brassiere when I dress.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color?

    I prefer unpadded, underwire brassieres like the Lilyette minimizer. I have breasts but like most men, they are fairly wide set so I need a bit of shaping. I do fill the cups of my brassieres, much to my delight.
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    Quote Originally Posted by marieclaire View Post
    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time? Yes, many times. The first time was years ago when I tried one of my mothers. I did not buy my first one until I was out on my own after college.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have? He?s, I own my own bras. Right now, since I have seriously reduced my stash, I am down to two.

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes? Just sometimes. About as often as I get dressed up.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing? Yes I have but not so much recently

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house? I have, yes, but rarely and normally only in cooler weather when it can be covered with something like a sweatshirt or jacket or both so that the band, the cups, the straps and adjusters are not visible.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online? Always in the store

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions? I do not wear just the bra. If I am wearing a bra, then I am typically wearing panties as well and sometimes other lingerie such as a slip,,camisole or pantyhose as well.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color?
    white soft cup (small A or B cups) . No underwire

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    Finally caught up enough and a little extra time to post so I figured I would respond to this one to counter balance the majority of responses.

    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time?
    Yes. I don?t specifically remember the first bra I put on. Probably no more special than any piece of female clothing I have worn.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have?
    Yes. Only 2 and both were only bought in recent months. I had generally just used old ones from my wife.

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes?
    Just sometimes. Only when cross dressing and frequently instead of a bra I use my shapewear girdle that has breast cups and shoulder straps so not technically a bra, but essentially the same.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing?
    No.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house?
    No.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online?
    Online only. Never been out, en femme.

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions?
    See 3.

    8 . What is your favorite style and color?
    Haven?t tried enough variety to answer this, but most have been fairly basic, not lacey or more than a basic bra.

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    I have a few bra's that i like very much but my fave are sports bra's or crop tops I wear these in male mode with tank top when I can out and about.

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    I love reading everyone's answers.

    One missing question is what size bra do you wear, with and/or without forms.

    I wear a 38C with forms. Without forms, I'm probably a 38 A-.

    Once I saw an ad for bras for women with large breasts. They had a 38M for sale. I had to have one just to try it on. I tried it on and my C forms were obviously way too small. So I went with my old standby: socks. I almost didn't have enough socks to fill both sides of a 38M.

    No, I won't wear it out. The breasts are so large they are obviously fake. Besides, I couldn't afford forms that large.

    Another question. What have you filled your bras with.

    Originally socks. When I had enough extra panties, panties were much softer than socks.

    My wife was a retail fashionista a long time ago. She had many suit jackets with shoulder pads. When the shoulder pads went out of style, she ripped them all out and through them out. I rescued them from the trash and stacked them together to fill bra cups. Eventually, I used nylon ankle socks to enclose them all. I used these until I upgraded to silicone forms.

    I prefer the asymmetric forms, but I also like the triangle shape. I dislike the teardrop and the round forms. They look very unnatural on me.

    I also have a breast plate that I've tried on but not worn. It's hard to carry this to my friend's place, who lets me dress up there.
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    1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time?
    Oh yes! My favorite. That was too long ago, but I'm sure it was pleasurable.

    2. Do you have your own bras? How many do you have?
    Yes, many of my own. As I sit here thinking, I can account for 12 bras.

    3. Do you wear a bra every day or just sometimes?
    Just sometimes, although I wish everyday.

    4. Have you ever worn a bra under men?s clothing?
    Yes, many times. Sometimes on the way home from work, out shopping, and even while hunting.

    5. Do you wear bras outside the house?
    See above.

    6. How do you buy bras: in the store or online?
    Both, but finding Amazon hub to be quite useful.

    7. Do you wear a bra only crossdressed or on other occasions?
    Isn't wearing crossdressed?

    8 . What is your favorite style and color?
    Never found a bra that wasn't a favorite.

    9. what size bra do you wear?
    38D with forms. I'm a natural 30B

    10. What have you filled your bras with?
    Tissue, socks, foam forms, silicon forms.
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    1.Yes, since beginning CD. First time was in a sports bra for early morning jogging in a park.
    2.Mostly sports bras, tank tops with builtin bra (about 15), and bikini swimsuits (about 30).
    3.Sometimes, mostly for sports.
    4.Usually not, except a few times in winter, a closed back crop top for extra warmth on chest.
    5.Yes, enjoy running/biking in sports bra and shorts, yoga in leggings and bra set, or swimming/surfing in 2-piece swimsuit.
    6.Both, but not into underwear or sexy lingerie.
    7.N/A, don't crossdress to pass on purpose, only genderbend.
    8.Triangle cups or high neck halter crop top, solid/color block/geometric/floral patterns, many bright colors, wide straps, racer back
    9. 36B to small C, need to grow a full C, D would be with additional forms
    Last edited by freeindress; 09-30-2023 at 04:16 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sometimes Steffi View Post
    I love reading everyone's answers.

    One missing question is what size bra do you wear, with and/or without forms.
    9. 40C with forms. Never undress, but would assume 40A.
    10. Went with socks for decades, then rice filled cut off pantyhose about the time I joined here. Then a nice poster here shipped me silicon forms which is what I use exclusively now.

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