Hello all,
I remember when I came out to my wife about liking to wear women's clothing, for some reason I was embarrassed about it. My wife had no problem at all with it, but I did. And for some reason the embarrassment got worse for a while. I needed to crossdress but was scared to do it. So we came up with a system that I would leave a sign in the bedroom (her jewelry box lid was open) and then she would tell me to dress up. All stupid, I know, but it seemed to take the decision-making and shame away for me.
I was wondering if any other Group members used similar tactics?
I don't do that now, by the way, and my wife is still OK with my choice of clothing.
luv J