If u have an SO has crossdressing effected your sex life?

[Cheddy]

I have been married for almost 10 years and just found out my husband cross dresses. Ever since I found out it seems our sex life is better. He only wants to have sex when he is dressed.

[Jade P]

Have u tried couples therapy, Jade? I don't think it could hurt in your situation. Do u think your SO would be willing to try that?

My wife wont go to couples therapy. I did go to several sessions with a therapist and I would like to start up again.

[char GG]

Cheddy,

How do you feel about that he only wants sex when CDed? Does that work for you too?

[Dutchess]

I have been married for almost 10 years and just found out my husband cross dresses. Ever since I found out it seems our sex life is better. He only wants to have sex when he is dressed.

From experience I would not let that go on.

I did that too trying to please him /make him comfortable and I ended up by myself . Pretty soon that is all they can do or will want to do and if you won't then ... mine stepped out . For him it was either that way or no way . I always had to make him think he was the "girl" and rather me be the 'Guy" which I hated ,, or a lesbian scene which is just ... no comment ..
The resentment I developed was and still is epic . Its a pretty serious addiction for some men and not always healthy .

I know that's not popular to say but its true and I am far from alone . Don't want to see you get hurt .