Here is an update to the She called me the B word posting I hade made earlier. I was asked how I do it.
Welp...I shower her with just the right amount of attention and love. That takes learning and knowing when too much become just creepy or the timing is wrong. The hugs out of nowhere for no reason. A gentle kiss on the hand as we pass by each other. Little text saying "love you". Date your girl. It might be just a lunch, stop at a park or you cooking dinner and a movie at home. Never stop dating her and this really makes her feel young, loved and special.
Now I do help with house hold chores. One because things like doing laundry is just Zen for me. Stains don't stand a chance with my relentless removal skills. She cooks a fantastic dinner and I love to kick her out of the kitchen and clean up. I cook her breakfast. Make her Mocha lattes at home or a hot coco at the end of the day when she least expects it. I tuck her in at night and this makes her giggle feeling special.
I know she did marry and wants a man. So I am sure to balance boy mode with gurl mode. Well maybe a bit more towards the gurl side than the boy yet I am aware of her needs too. When I do boy mode I like to melt her with desire. I work it and look and smell my best sexy man mode ever for her.
But this one things seems to be working the best yet. I grab her at least once a day when possible. Whether in our room or the guest room. Lay down side by side, face to face and spend just 5 or so minutes checking on her heart. How is it? What might she need? Is everything good? Do you need anything special or not. Stop, connect, eye to eye. Hear her....see her....listen to her. Hugs and small peck then back to the real world. I tell you she gets so excited when we are jumping in and snuggling up to each other for just a few non sexual deep connection moments.
This has been a game changer.