Due to a very serious medical issue 13 years ago, I have become incontinent. Not bladder but rather fecal. The results are quite nasty. My wife has suggested that I wear Depends, at least at night. It?s a hard thing to wrap my head around .I have tried the men?s Depends but the protection is in front where it is useless for me. In addition, not being very well endowed, it is kinda pointless. I have had success with women?s Depends and brought some with last week when my wife and I rented a lake house for a reconnect get away. I wanted to protect the owner?s beds. I used them quicker than expected so needed to buy some. At the grocery store my wife strolled down the feminine products aisle and grabbed a package of men?s Depends. I explained that I needed women?s and why, her response was ?whatever works?. I have expressed my appreciation several times for her understanding and acceptance. Now that we are home, she added a couple of packages to our grocery order. No problems. I am hopeful her new attitude also applies to me wearing bras, panties, nighties, and dresses and skirts. She was tolerant and accepting, growing into full blown participation early in our marriage but when we had kids, DADT set in. I have to make sure the pink fog does not mess things up again.