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    It took over a year, but finally did it

    Some time ago I had my ears pierced. At that time, my wife got some beautiful real gold dangle earrings for me. But I just could not wear them. The problem was the left ear. The earrings were lever backs and try as I may, I just could not get the left earring in. It seemed the space between the back and the front of the earring just was a bit too tight, and I had too much ear to get in. I didn't want to give up on the earrings as they were too pretty. Finally yesterday I suceeded, and they looked and felt fabulous. I don't know what changed, if the ear lobe stretched a tad from wearing other earrings, or I just learned better to how to get them on. Anyway, it was a great experience. Naturally my wife is going to borrow them for Christmas dance. Nice.....

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    Donna, Perseverance does pay off. The earrings sound wonderful but you may never get them back from your wife.
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    I have no expereince with pierced ears, so I have no idea what the original problem was, or what might have changed. Glad that you are now able to wear and share them!
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    Since I love dangle earrings, I think the hole was pulled down just a tad so now there was less bulk in the way.

    Yes, I do expect I'll have to share the earrings, but that's all good good good.

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    Donna, That's great. My wife borrows my clip-ons all the time.
    Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".

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    Sounds fab. Really looking forward to having mine pierced next week. Last Christmas I had on clip on earrings for the day and ended up with swollen lobes for all January.

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    Go to a piercing shop the guns work but piercing shops. Do? It better it kind of does matter.

    Depends on the earring style but most I found to be pretty flimsy.
    You might be able to gently expand the earring to fit better.
    Yes I'm suggesting to bend it in very careful words.

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    Exploring NEPA now Cheryl T's Avatar
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    Maybe the left ear piercing was a bit higher than the right and that's causing a problem.
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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    Gurrrl, I've been having pierced ears for a few years now. Love it. It did take me a while to get used to putting on my earings. Now it's a snap. Keep wearing your earrings girl.

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    I think I mentioned it before but my hair dresser that I've had for over thirty years always makes a comment about my ear lobes. She tells me it's strange that as long as she knew me I always wore diamond studs but my ear lobes are showing signs of stretching that is usally caused by heavy cosmetic earrings. She said some women have make a new hole next to there original hole because the stud will go right through. I find it much easier to put on earrings these days, I don't know if it's because the hole is getting bigger or I'm just getting better at it.

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    I still use clip on earrings. They do start hurting after a while, you learn to pull them off quickly when finished.

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