A few years back at a family pool party I was wearing male bathing suit my outspoken niece told me that she never noticed before but I have a women's body. She asked me why I didn't have any hair anywhere and my legs looked smoother then hers. So I believe most everyone else seen me but didn't make any comment to me but my outspoken niece told me straight out that I do respect more then someone talking behind me. My limits aren't even as far as yours, I'm just all shaved and have both my ears pierced but wear men's clothing. You push the limits much more then I do. I believe people notice but don't say anything