How far can you go before suspicion?

[Maria 60]

A few years back at a family pool party I was wearing male bathing suit my outspoken niece told me that she never noticed before but I have a women's body. She asked me why I didn't have any hair anywhere and my legs looked smoother then hers. So I believe most everyone else seen me but didn't make any comment to me but my outspoken niece told me straight out that I do respect more then someone talking behind me. My limits aren't even as far as yours, I'm just all shaved and have both my ears pierced but wear men's clothing. You push the limits much more then I do. I believe people notice but don't say anything

[Monique65]

I believe my wife might finally be figuring things out. In the past, she has always changed the subject when I brought up anything regarding my feminine leanings. It was as if she knew but didn’t want to know. She was never outwardly negative towards them, just passive. I wear panties full time, a bra during the day, shave my chest and privates, have my nails trimmed in a girly way, and now wear leggings, all with her tacit approval. I occasionally sleep in a long nighty, which she has seen in my drawer. Although we have never openly discussed my feminine tendencies, I’m sure she has figured it out and is accepting of it.

[CharlotteCD]

Monique, unless you live in a different household to your SO, I don't possibly see how wearing a bra every day, wearing panties and leggings is anything but OBVIOUSLY showing feminine tendencies.

Wearing a bra all day leaves marks. If you wear panties every day, you wouldn't have any male underwear in the wash... That just doesn't add up to "she's finally figuring things out". You're practically slapping her in the face with your crossdressing from the sounds of it?

[Monique65]

Of course she knows. I was being a little facetious stating that she’s finally figuring it out. It’s taken several decades to arrive at this point in our marriage, and I am grateful for her support.