Hear me out a min. First off I am not critical of anyone in any way. This just puzzles me. Often we see posts indicating those of us who CD would like to meet up with other CDs. Nothing is wrong with that at all. The thing is, many of us also state that we are hetero and as such only attracted to women. So it seems that it would be more comfortable for hetero CDs to want to hang out with women not men in a dress so to speak. So is the mind set that only other CDs would understand us and our issues? It seems to me that hanging out with genetic women would put us more at ease. Perhaps it is an acceptance thing. It just puzzles me. I have gone to many bars and clubs only to end up hanging out with GGs or mixed groups. I would not mind meeting other CDs and have on occasion, but it would not be as desirable for me as meeting accepting GGs. Maybe someone can explain the thinking behind CD only meet ups.
Just curious , no judgement from me.
Sandi
