Step son still here!!!

[Natalie5004]

Hi folks,

Well I am in a drought for sure. I usably dress for Natalie at least 2 to 3x a week. I dress for at least 8 hours and I am always ready to dress, staying clean shaven, legs and body.

But we still have a house guest. My wife's son. He is staying in our second bedroom with all my Natalie clothes, under garments and accessories. So basically I am locked out being Natalie.

Why don't people stay like fish? 3 days and move on. This 34 year old needs to finish school and get a job and a work life.

Don't get me wrong please. We love him and I have been his Dadish since he was 8 years old (He still has a Father but I am Dadish, get it?). His Mom loves it when he is here like all Moms do. But Mom is back to working after the holidays, so should he. Expected depart day is Sunday.

I need my me time. Natalie is chomping at the bit to be released again.

Here is a older photo just so everyone will see I am not gone but only held up.

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[JenniferR771]

Cute picture.

More to come --and soon--I hope.

[kimdl93]

This too shall pass. Hopefully he?s getting his feet underneath himself and will be back living his own life again soon.

[Karren H]

Love that red hair, girlfriend!

[Kitty Sue]

Nice picture. I understand the whole thing of family staying longer than needed. Have an aunt who stayed 3 months last year. She is coming back this month. We have politely told she has to leave after a week.

[Diane P]

Natalie, I love the picture! Of course I have a thing about redheads. Hopefully your stepson will depart this weekend. I know college classes here have started again as of yesterday.

[Debs]

He might be trying on your dresses during the night, lol

[Deborah G]

Natalie, Love your photo! My mother-in-law sometimes extended visits here, too, and cramps my style. She and I get along well, but she is not aware of Deborah. Yes, house guests and fish both need to be gone after 3 days!

[Natalie5004]

Natalie, I love the picture! Of course I have a thing about redheads. Hopefully your stepson will depart this weekend. I know college classes here have started again as of yesterday.

The man not a boy anymore, is in his last semester of PA school. It starts end of January. Then he will have to do the internship somewhere. We will see.

[Christie ann]

If I looked like you, I would want to dress up more too. Very nice picture

[Lisa Gerrie]

He is staying in our second bedroom with all my Natalie clothes, under garments and accessories.

Maybe he's a closeted crossdresser and doesn't want to move out because he'd lose access to all of that fun stuff...

[alwayshave]

Natalie, I feel your pain. My wife's oldest daughter has been in my house for 6+ years. Really puts a crimp on dressing at home.

[Heather76]

"He is staying in our second bedroom with all my Natalie clothes, under garments and accessories."

Are all the Natalie items under lock and key or can he easily find/see them? If he can see them, he obviously has to know you CD. If that's the case, go into the room, retrieve what you want, and introduce him to Natalie.

[mbmeen12]

Find an appartment for him, spend the money for a couple months rent...win win. Can you say barnacle lol

[bridget thronton]

The best thing I did was to come clean with my family (at my wife's insistence) - when my daughter and granddaughter returned home to live with us there were no surprises when I put on a dress.

[PaulaJeanette]

So, whose clothes and accessories does he think is all around in that second bedroom? Or does he already know?

[Debbie Denier]

At least there is light at the end of the tunnel for you. My daughters both in their 20s are still living at home. With the cost of living and high mortgages ,they are here for the long haul.Great pic by the way.

[Natalie5004]

All hanging in the closet and in the full chest of drawers, Everything is there from my jewelry, 15 bras, pantyhose, 5 skirts, 8 wigs, 10 pair of shoes.... it is all right there. Full display if he opens a single thing up.

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So, whose clothes and accessories does he think is all around in that second bedroom? Or does he already know?

My wife told him I dress up last year. But I will not have Natalie come visit while he is here. I can wait 3 more days.


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[kimdl93]

It’s interesting to learn that he knows and that it has not impacted your relationship adversely. He probably appreciates your discretion during his stay. My kids know, but they are adults living their own lives and they seem willing to allow me to live my own. Perhaps that is because I have not tried to impose aspects of my personal life on theirs.

[Sandi Beech]

Finding shoes etc would not necessarily raise any questions, but finding wigs and breast forms is another story.

But I sense your pain.

Sandi

[CDMargret]

I so understand. My wife talks that one day her elderly father may need to move in with us. Now that would be a total disaster for my daily dressing and friends who come over to visit as well. Oh please let that never happen. Rude and selfish I know...sorry

[JulieC]

Natalie, I get it. It's hard to wait. Very hard.

I'm facing somewhat of a similar situation. Except, in my case the person in question was supposed to leave Sunday...and isn't leaving until Tuesday. "Ok, it will be alright" I tell myself, but then still chomping hard at the bit. I want to be dressed NOW!

Marget; selfish? No, you have a right to be you. We have to make compromises in our lives unfortunately (and fortunately...in this case it means you have a wonderful wife!).

[Sometimes Steffi]

Sounds like Rod Stewart

Wake up, Maggie, I think I got somethin' to say to you
It's late September and I really should be back at school
I know I keep you amused, but I feel I'm being used
Oh, Maggie, I couldn't have tried any more

[Jillcder]

As usual very pretty pictures Natalie, it would be a dream come true to stay in miss Natalies dressing room not sure I would ever leave.

[Natalie5004]

Here it is Monday morning. And guess what... Still here. Now leaving Tuesday. I will pack his stuff for him. I want my me time back.

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