She asked me last night if I was gay or bisexual. I used to question if I was bisexual, but I am happy in the knowledge that I am straight and I am not interested in a relationship or sex with a man.
I have spent 9 years trying to get her into bed with me, but because I enjoy certain things we can't discuss, there is an assumption that said bedroom activity + crossdressing = I must be gay or bi and questioning myself.
We've exchanged a few messages and I asked if that was a genuine concern for her, and I had the following response:
no, a suspicion. I want you to be you, so if that were to turn out you are gay or bisexual I'd accept that and deal with it the best way I can.
I have reassured her that I am not gay or bisexual, and I don't have any physical or emotional attachment to men.
It's so frustrating that crossdressing is still so intertwined with the idea that it means you are gay.
Has anybody else faced this repeated questioning that you're gay, almost as if they think that you're lying, but eventually enough questions will get you to be honest and admit you are?