Relationships have to be built on their own form of uniqueness to the traits and character of that said couple. Like Gretchen and spouse, my wife and I have lived our lives on a 50-50 format. This is how we entered our marriage. I'm the left hand, and she is the right hand of one person. Marriage is finding out what works and going with it. Both the left hand and the right hand have to be happy, or the one person isn't happy!