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    New experience

    Last week I had a work seminar out of town in a warmer country and desided to take my wife. It was two days of work and a few days we rented a car and beach side cabin. It had a almost private beach area but it seamed like a retirement area and there were some people walking. We were relaxing on the beach and my wife asked me that she found it funny that I never mentioned wanting to wear a bikini or women's bathing suit. She asked me if I ever wore one or if I ever wore my sisters or mothers when I was younger or if I ever sneaked a try of hers. She mentioned that I never even take the ones she puts in the goodwill cloths bag. I told her as far as I could remember I never did try one on before but maybe I don't really remember I did do a lot of crazy things back then.
    Later that day we were in a mall shopping and my wife wanted to buy me a women's swim suit, she asked if I wanted a full piece but with my body I could get away with a two piece. I didn't know and she desided to get me a two piece. The next morning I put it on and I wore my male shorts and t-shirt on top to the beach and when I laid on the chair I removed my male clothes and for the first time in a while I was feeling embarrassed sitting there and dressed like that in front of my wife. My wife got up and looked around and told me to get that new bikini wet, I was a little redundant but went in the ocean and I have to admit it was an amazing feeling. When I went back to my lawn chair I took of the top and put my male shorts on, a while later a man walking his dog came to us and striking a conversation. My wife out of nowhere threw my t-shirt at me while I was talking and gave me a look like "put it on". After he left I asked her what was with the shirt, she told me just being out in the sun for a short while I already had a bikini tan line on my chest.
    We did laugh it off and I did spend the rest of the day trying to even out my tan. The next morning before we left I wanted to see how a one piece felt like so I wore one of hers for a while and again what an amazing feeling in the ocean when wet.
    I was always telling my wife I felt like I hit a dead end when it came to feeling a new sensations with my dressing but she proved me wrong it did feel amazing and like something I never felt before.
    I guess I never had the thought of wearing a bikini in the past and don't remember ever trying one on before now, I guess "never say never".

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    That was a great experience for you i hope someday I will get the courage to try a bikini on at the beach

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    That's so great!! I would love to have that experience, but I'm too embarrassed -- not about dressing public but about showing that much skin. Just haven't got the body for it.

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    Maria,
    The idea of wearing a bikini on the beach is nice, but it's the fact that your wife is not only supportive, but that she takes the initiative to encourage you to find a broader comfort zone is the part that I'd be jealous of. The experience on the beach sounds amazing, but having a spouse whose boundaries are broader than yours is AWESOME. She seems like a wonderful source of support.
    To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial. To be known and not loved is our greatest fear. But to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God. It is what we need more than anything. ~ Timothy Keller

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    Hi Maria , Great Story, Thanks for Sharing it with us, >Orchid**OO**
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    The whole experience sounds wonderful but the point Bea made about your encouraging wife is spot on and absolutely great!
    Crissy

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    It?s a good thing your wife is making sure you enjoy new experiences. I wonder what might be on the horizon.
    Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.

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    I used to suntan in women?s thongs at the beach, but I had to stop mostly because over time the sun has taken its toll on my skin. No one ever really seemed to take notice although I only went to areas that were not crowded.

    It is best to just spend 10 to 20 min in the sun on a regular basis at first, so you don?t burn as the tan builds up. It is definitely exciting to see a bikini top tan. It is not something you can remove like makeup you know. I still have a residual bra tan from last summer. It is finally fading.

    I made the mistake of putting a one piece on in my pool years ago, and my wife hit the roof over it so you are lucky to have acceptance.

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    I often wore a one piece (and a wig) in my pool. One advantage of the one piece was that I could wear a latex waist clincher underneath, which contributed to a much more feminine shape. Sunscreen is your friend
    Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.

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    Your wife is a keeper. What a nice suggestion.
    Marcia (LOVES) Blue

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    What a sweet story. Thank you for sharing it with us.

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    Your great wife helps you with another new experience - thanks for sharing it with us

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    Maria, Your wife is wonderful. I'd love to try a bathing suit. Too funny about the tan lines.
    Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".

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    I just love hearing stories about your lovely wifes acceptance she is definitely a gem! I would love to sunbathe in a bikini I consider the tan lines a Crossdressing badge of honor.

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    You have a understanding wife a pure treasure
    If you can't laugh and have fun you might as well go home.

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    Great story girl. I wish I could wear a bikini I just don't have the figure.😭

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    Envious I am. I love reading stories of total acceptance and spousal participation.

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    You are so lucky to have such a supportive wife and one who is willing to get involved with your cross dressing

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    Wow, you?re so lucky! Congratulations, what an amazing time that sounds like.

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