Strange

[Hidey]

Earlier this week visited a garage with my motor home to have a leak fixed under the warranty no problem they would email me details of the appointment very helpful. I am not out to any one was dressed as normal women's v-necked jumper and t shirt with a thin scarf round neck, for some months now been growing hair and having cut regularly towards a long style properly.
When the email arrived it was addressed to Mrs... my first name depending on spelling can be either but....
Perhaps even though I'm just in my eighties perhaps I could push the closet door ajar always wanted to but would not upset my lovely very longtime wife who has now very sadly and much missed passed away

[kimdl93]

Seems as though you have pushed the door ajar already, based on how you were dressed. Why not throw it wide open? You have another good 20 years to enjoy being yourself, now that you are alone. Also, my condolences on the passing of your wife.

[docrobbysherry]

I'm 80, Hidey. So, I know that how old u feel is much more important than your chronological age. I still go out clubbing and dancing quite often.

So, I say, "Go for it!"

[JulieC]

Hidey, the more you wait the fewer days there are. What have you to lose in throwing the door wide open?

I understand your concern about not wanting to upset your wife. That's a very valid concern. I'm sad for you that it's no longer a concern!! The tiny silver lining to that cloud is that IS no longer a concern.