I have been talking to a therapist over the past few months, we have covered many topics and cross dressing came up. She asked how much damage has keeping this secret done to me mentally. To a point where she has challenged me to talk about it with someone.

I have carried secret my entire life and came out to my wife in 2014 as I was miserable and needed to say something or destroy my marriage. Luckily my wife was okay within her limits and here I am ten years later

I have a transgender work former work colleague that I have thought about telling for me many years and have typed and deleted a text many times

With the demise of Gender Mosaic it?s been hard meeting others like myself here in Ottawa. I really would like to have a girlie chat and poor my heart out to somebody who would understand

Any advice would be greatly appreciated