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    Senior Member Lori31's Avatar
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    Is It Just Me?

    I know most real women will say, that when they get home from work or whatever it is that they where doing for the day, they cannot wait to take off their bra and free "the girls." I can't speak for other part timers here, but my mindset is the complete opposite of those same real women. Because I dont wear a bra as often as they do. I can't wait to get home from work, or whatever it is I was doing for the day, and put on my bra and strap in "the girls"(my forms). How does everyone else feel on the subject?

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    I have real DD cup breasts. If I'm out in public I have to wear a bra. So when I get home, it's a relief to take off the bra.

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    I wear a bra w/forms virtually 24/7 and they don't bother me at all, I love wearing them. But GG women have a lot of flesh, muscle and nerves packed in a bra cup so its no wonder so many can't wait to take them off. I'm sure some of it comes from not having a properly fitted bra also.
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    "But GG women have a lot of flesh, muscle and nerves packed in a bra cup so its no wonder so many can't wait to take them off."
    Some men such as myself are in the same boat. My bras fit me properly so they are are not uncomfortable, but it's nice to take a bra off to let things air out.

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    Last edited by JohnH; 01-10-2025 at 11:41 PM.

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    I wear a bra and forms virtually 24/7 too. Living on my own, I can do that. I have not yet had an issue with any of my bras, regular, sports, or camis but mostly I remove them when I put a nightie on. I suppose that means that, at the end of the day, I am ready to be without my bra.

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    In my mind I think I would have no problem with bras/forms all the time and have had no issues when I have been able to for fairly long periods- however i could see it getting uncomfortable eventually.

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    I’m with you Lori. Getting home from work and putting on my bra and forms is such a joy. I love feeling the weight on my chest, and just don’t feel right without it.
    What do I do on days when I don't crossdress? I have no idea.

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    I believe this is the part my wife loves having a crossdresser husband who knows the importance of having and spending money on a comfortable bra. My wife mostly wears sport bras style these days, but when she did wear regular bras she would have them custom made and because of my situation I understood the importance of a women having a comfortable bra. It's funny but not as much now because my wife dresses very casual at work but back in the days when she would dress with skirts and dresses and walk in the door and undress and put on track pants and a sweat shirt. I would get upset and tell her I was envious of the men she works with because they are seeing my wife the way I want to see her dressed. But I did understand, just like I don't want to stay in my dirty work clothes. Butthis post did remind me of that, not just taking off a bra but taking everything off felt good to them

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    So true. During my working years, when we got home from work, it was automatic, she couldn?t wait to take off, what I couldn?t wait to put on, yes, both bra and hose. Since retiring, I dress most days, always lingerie and bra with and without forms. I wear an a cup no forms, b cup with forms and hose.

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    The fact that your boobs aren't real is probably the reason for the difference. Also I don't think women get a kick out of having breasts and wearing a bra.

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    It's like being a grandparent and seeing the grandkids.

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    Hi Lori I feel The same way,
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    Several years ago on Facebook, I read a comment on this topic from the wife of a friend. She is a buxom lass, to put it mildly. She is well known for having an opinion on every subject and no hesitation about providing those opinions in full. When this topic came up, she related how good it felt to get home from work, strip off her bra, and sling shot it across the bedroom. Others of her friends agreed with the feeling but none confessed or commented on her slinging her bra. I maintained listening silence.

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    I am like you, but I have had bras that just didn't fit me properly and I couldn't wait to get back home and get that torture device "OFF"! It felt great to have it off but...

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    Women want to take off their bras after work, because they feel it's something which defines them as female in the workplace, and seen as subordinate by some. OTOH, we WANT to put on a bra and girl clothes, because it reinforces the idea that we are female, easing the GID which many suffer from. A comparison would be more like, a man who works as a welder, and has to wear heavy temperature resistant gear to protect him from the heat all day at work, and at the end of the day, just wants to take all that stuff off. My ex wife was the same way as many other women, when she came home from work, the first thing she would do was change out of her uniform, and especially her bra. It annoyed her to no end, that I felt more comfortable wearing one.
    Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
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    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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