Are you a crossdresser or underdresser?
Crossdresser: Loves to dress completely as a woman
Underdresser: Loves wearing feminine lingerie.
Which spectrum are you closest to?
Are you a crossdresser or underdresser?
Crossdresser: Loves to dress completely as a woman
Underdresser: Loves wearing feminine lingerie.
Which spectrum are you closest to?
Definitely crossdresser. I underdress on occasion, but when girl mode is on for me... I want to be fully dressed up!
Crossdresser, absolutely crossdresser.
But since it started freezing I began wearing pantyhose even in drab mode, but only to keep warm, so some might consider it underdressing.
Mostly an underdresser, but not by choice. Society and my better half keep me restricted to mostly undergarments. I do wear women?s jeans and tops under my male tops, and carry a purse sometimes. Just an undresser itching to bust out.
@AllieBellema Very good. I saw your profile picture. What an amazing experience trying on a wedding dress!Originally Posted by AllieBellema
I'm going to say 50/50 spilt. When I do dress at home it has to be all or nothing so that,would be the crossdress part, but I don't pass so when out I do usally underdress.
I used to underdress, it has progressed to all or nothing now though when I dress.
I am a crossdresser. Though, I always wear panties no matter how I'm dressed.
Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".
Definitely both. Always underdress: panties, bra, half or full slip & hose. After, depends on mood. Women?s tops are so soft and comfortable.
I always wear panties, but no other women's clothes when in drab mode. I also crossdress as much as I can -- with my wonderful and supportive and long-suffering wife, that means 2-4 days a week, usually. For me crossdressing is wearing women's clothes appropriate to the occasion. I don't wear skirts or fancier outfits to run errands. I never wear dresses, because I'm too overweight, but I wear skirts to go out for drinks or dinner, and sometimes during the day if I'm having a "nice" lunch with someone. Like all the GGs I see around, I don't wear heels out. Once in a blue moon, I'll see a 20-something in heels, but most of the time women wear boots, booties, sandals, flats, or sneakers. So yes, I'm a crossdresser, but I don't look like the stereotype with glamorous makeup, fancy dress, nude hose, and heels. That's my preference. I love seeing girls on this forum living their best life in fancy outfits. I do try to dress up when I go to the opera, a symphony concert, or other similar events. For those, I work harder on makeup, make sure my hair is nice, best clothes, and (short) heels. It's all about what's most comfortable for you.
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Underdressed, panties and bra every day. cross dressed, is usually a bathing suit, rash guard and bike shorts, or tights. There is no way for me to try and pass, so I am content to my under dressing.
I'm curious where u found those definitions, Marie? Because I haven't heard those before. These r ones I'm familiar with:
Crossdresser: Person who dresses in opposite gender's clothes.
Underdresser: Crossdresser who wears their regular clothes to conceal the opposite gender's clothes they're wearing.
I tried underdressing for a week or 2 but found it disappointing and pointless!
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Half cross dresser......meaning I wear all femme cloths.underwear,bra etc skirts & blouse or a dress and full make-up but never bothered with a wig or forms. Only underdressed a couple of times....didn't really do it for me.
As I’ve aged I find I’m all over the spectrum.
I wear panties all the time whether or not I’m en femme or male mode.
I only sleep in nighties
When I work from home I’m almost always in all feminine clothes, but I typically don’t do my makeup unless I’m going out to meet friends.
I am now to a point where I’m comfortable wearing half and half out in public. I will go shopping at the grocery store, buy gas, go to Target or the post office or even walk outside to a local spot for lunch in a male polo or tshirt (no bra) paired with a cute and comfortable skirt.
As I said I’m all over the spectrum.
Rebecca Bas
I never had the desire for underdressing. It’s all the way or not at all.
Amy
I’ve only fully dressed on four occasions, each time a professional makeover. While I absolutely adored doing these makeovers, I have been an underdresser for the most part, typically wearing a bra, and occasionally other lingerie around the house with my wife’s complete acceptance.
I guess I'd have to say "yes" to this, but I don't get the chance very often. My wife does NOT approve.
I'll add that I'm probably more in agreement with the GG's though. Forms, pads, etc. do nothing for me and I'm usually relieved when the bra comes off.
I can't say that I so much "love" lingerie. It's better to say that my panties are just that - my underwear. No big deal.Underdresser: Loves wearing feminine lingerie.
As for the rest of the underthings - not so much. Unless I'm getting a chance to go all out, I usually don't bother.
Last edited by SaraLin; 01-19-2025 at 08:06 AM. Reason: word change
I’m an underdresser. I wear panties, bras, and leggings every day and sleep in cozy night gowns every night.
Honoring the woman within
I put my panties on before my skirt.
Yes theyre pink.
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[QUOTE=docrobbysherry;4723550]I'm curious where u found those definitions, Marie? Because I haven't heard those before. These r ones I'm familiar with:
Crossdresser: Person who dresses in opposite gender's clothes.
Underdresser: Crossdresser who wears their regular clothes to conceal the opposite gender's clothes they're wearing.
I agree. Underdressing is crossdressing but in a limited way beneath (male) clothes.
Underdresser.
I do have a couple skirts and a pairs of jeans. Used to have a few blouses but wore mostly at home.
Nightgowns, panties, stockings and slips are my thing. My wife is fully supportive and it works for me/us.
I wear romantic lingerie to bed almost every night, so.... am I both? I do wear panties underneath my clothes when I'm out.
For me it is "all or nothing" when it comes to wearing anything more than nightwear. If I have the opportunity for a full day it is always a dress (no pants), hosiery and heels and all the proper undergarments: bra, slip and panty. It's always a wig, and I admit full makeup is too exhausting to apply and remove, so it is lip color which still gives of a scent and marks my coffee cup. Since my wife and I sleep apart, and she is a late riser I always sleep in a nightgown with a bra, panty and perhaps a full slip under the nightgown. Mentally, that is what I would expect to be "all or nothing" when retiring for the night.
do we have to choose?
Just an under dresser wearing panties and a bra. Been this way since a 10 year old boy now a 61 year old man
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