Crossdresser or underdresser?

[kateydoe]

I underdress everyday, I?m still in hiding from family, friends and coworkers. Underdressing makes my day o by quick knowing what I have on. I wish I could be more open but for now this is where I am

[Kyliej96]

I wear panties 24/7, no matter what else I?m wearing. As for being a crossdresser, that?s in my alone time, however I get to dress up at some level almost every night.

[Jade P]

Underdresser, I wear panties and pantyhose every day. My wife knows but doesnt like to see me dressed, so in private I wear my other clothing.

[AlicePetticoat]

I am both. I am a crossdresser in the late evening in private, and an underdresser during the day. My work day is much better with a pair of pantyhose underneath.

[JohnH]

Since I ALWAYS identify as a man and use my real male name of John, I consider myself as a freestyler rather than a crossdresser. And I wear dresses exclusively. I wear men's white brief underpants and a bra. The bra is a woman's garment, since last time I checked there no bras with a DD cup in the men's section.

John

[Marketa]

All in for crossdresser. I have either male clothes or female clothes, but there's never anything in between except socks.

[Mercedes]

I am an underdresser, panties all the time and sleep in various fem underwear, as that is all I can realistically have on a regular basis. It is partially fulfilling but, I wish I could be fully dressed more than I am able to be.

[RachelB.]

Simply put, Yes

[Teresa.Smith.VA]

I am a crossdresser that means I wear 100% woman's attire when I am Teresa, at home or when my wife and I are out in public.

When I am my man self, I always wear panties 24/7 no matter how I'm dressed.

My 100% supporting wife has always enjoyed my being a crossdresser. We have fun as girlfriends.

[krissy]

Im a crossdresser .i love to fully dress cant get enough lol

[Taylor186]

I love to dress fully, but most days when I'm out, my dressing is hidden beneath male clothes. At least, I think it is hidden. At home I don't need to hide it.

I also frequently stealth dress, which to me means openly wearing gender neutral looking clothing when they are not. For instance, I mostly wear women's black leggings while at the healthclub. I've also worn semi-sheer black tights with lycra bike shorts, both from the women's department.

[Alexa502]

I like to wear lingerie under my clothes when I'm out in public, like to dress up when I'm at home.

[Closet-CDThong]

It took me a while to be able to admit to myself that I am a crossdresser. I spent time feeling ashamed and dismissing it as something temporary.

I only have one dress, which I rarely wear and only ever in private, but a number of bras, panties, and sports wear.

By the definition given I would be classified as an 'underdresser'. But I'm not. I'm a cross dresser. Tbh I still fairly often feel ashamed. But I accept it.

Hope my thoughts don't upset anyone.

[AnelineM]

Since we both retired, I don't get many opportunities to fully dress, but I underdress with panties and nude lipstick most days.

[Lacey New]

Closet,
No need for you to think that you are upsetting anyone here. You are honest with your feelings. Believe me, there are many of us here who have felt some degree of doubt , shame and insecurity during our crossdressing journey and some of us still hide it even from our partners. You are not alone and you are welcome here.

[Closet-CDThong]

Thank you - appreciated.