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    What's the thrill of it?

    Last night I was so tired I fell asleep on the couch. I woke up and went to bed half asleep and just took off my top and dropped the jean skirt and went into bed with a bra and slip. When I got up to go to work this morning I was sitting on the edge of the bed. My wife asked me what was the thrill of sleeping like that, after all I literally hit the pillow and fell asleep and now I'm waking up and undressing to go to work, what was the thrill?. I told her she's probably right why would anyone and especially a women who can't wait to remove her bra want to sleep with one. I told her the thrill is from the moment I open my eyes and feel the feeling of the slip on my legs. Then when I take off the covers and still in disbelief that I'm allowed to sleep like this and then looking down at myself and it gives me a big smile. You can't start the day any better then waking up with a smile. She gave me a "whatever makes you happy" answer. I thought I would get some browny points and telling her waking up next to her also gives me a big smile. I usually don't sleep with a bra but I was so tired last night I don't remember going from the couch to my bed. I usually sleep with a silk nightie of full slip and its getting colder and I have a fleece nightie. That's my thrill of sleeping fem, what's yours?
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    I sleep in a nightie or a teddie. And you"re so right, how could you not wake up with a smile on your face.

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    With me it's not a thrill more of a comfort. I only sleep in night clothes and that is always a nighty. I much prefer a nighty to pyjamas.
    I don't wish to change my gender I just want to change my clothes.

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    I always sleep in a nighty. I love waking up and see in a woman in the mirror. It just feels correct. Not a thrill so much as a feeling that this is how it’s supposed to be. I make my breakfast before changing into daytime clothes.
    What do I do on days when I don't crossdress? I have no idea.

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    I too sleep i a bra and slip most nights.
    Not so much a thrill as comforting and feeling the bust as I wake from time to time during the night, just pleasant.
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    The kinky feel of wearing nipple squeezing forms, (custom made), waist cincher, and tite girdle, tucked, to bed. Don't do it often because they effect how I sleep!
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    I can?t explain it either, other than sheer (no pun) comfort. My nightly items include bra, sometimes forms, panties, thigh highs, nylon nightgown, sometimes a full or half slip, and a flit, or two of my favorite perfume. It works very nicely. Yes., i sleep and rest very well.

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    No thrill but some women do sleep wearing a bra for comfort or support.
    Personally I wear mine sometimes, not for the "thrill" of wearing a bra for the enhanced feeling of femininity of having breasts when I wake.
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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    I love sleeping in a bra or nightie, always with panties, and have been doing so for a few years now. My polite wife has not objected and is use to it by now.

    There may be a couple of reasons I think;

    1. It feels great and I love the gentle tightness of the bra around my chest. And having a satin nightie is just soft and cuddly. And I have a purple teddy that is my personal favourite.

    2. I am not really able to fully dress very often but I do undress in panties all the time. Maybe the being seen in lingerie gives me the feeling of being dressed, and I think might make up for the hiding in drab.

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    I wear old stuff that's gotten too ratty for public consumption, but not yet ready to hit the rag bag.


    Hose/tights, leggings, tops, shorts, lightweight dresses, stuff like that.


    Speaking of which, I was even able to stretch out a couple old tunic tops into sleep dresses!


    But yeah, those are my pajamas.


    P.S. I'll pass on the sleep bra, thanks.

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    My wife also finds it amusing that she can?t wait to get her bra off where I want mine on.
    I used to sleep naked, but lately I?ve just been wearing panties to bed, it feels great.
    My wife is away for a while with work. This week I bought a nice pyjama set in that really soft stretchy material. Feels amazing, I want to buy more and may just do that with Black Friday specials.

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    For me -
    First off, I agree with the GG's general attitude of "Why would I want to sleep in a bra?" They're not exactly comfortable in my book and they tend to keep me awake.

    My sleepwear of choice is a simple nightie and panties, but it's not for any kind of thrill. No, it's more a matter of comfort and a certain sense of peacefulness (or maybe "rightness?) that helps me relax and go to sleep easier.
    Heck, even my wife refers to my nighties as my "comfy clothes."

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    It’s about comfort for me. I used to sleep in tee shirts and tighty whites that would bunch up and be very uncomfortable when I turned over. Now, my night gowns move with me and my panties do not restrict anything. I do remove my bra, though.
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    I think we tend to sleep how we feel most comfortable so we can get rested for the next day.
    the most comfortable and most relaxing way for me is dressed with forms and the appropriate undergarments with a nightgown. It is hard to explain and would be next to impossible to explain to a woman. But that is how I feel most relaxed and I love the feeling of waking up dressed with the forms. After I get up I remove my sleep forms and get my daytime forms on with at least a dress. Sometimes I add the pantyhose and heels. That is my preferred way. Goes totally against what women prefer, So it would be difficult to explain to anyone.

    Just as the reason for dressing is hard to explain, so is sleeping in women's attire
    my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress

    "Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"

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    I sleep in bra with forms and have about 6 - 8 nightgowns to wear depending on the season. The breasts feel correct and comforting to me and help me to sleep.

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    I don't equate sleeping in a bra and panty with a full slip or a nightgown as a thrill. I find it comforting. Most nights, when I put my head down, I just clunk out. What do you day dream about before you fall asleep? Or, when you got through that period of rapid eye movement of sleep? I use to dwell upon memories of being on patrol in Vietnam and watching guys get blown away from land mines. Then, sleeping in femme attire became routine and my mind may dwell upon cross dressing escapades, and I do sometimes awaken during REM sleep and interrupt a cross dressing dream. Actually, cross dressing is therapeutic. I'd rather lose myself in cross dressing adventures than smoke pot or lose myself it a bottle of scotch every night. Any therapists out there reading this stuff?

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    As far as nightgowns, etc I always wear a nightgown to sleep.
    I don't wear slips or half slips to bed. Those are day clothes for me and not for sleeping. I do have a dozen or so nightgowns of different lengths and styles for different seasons and such.
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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    When I wear an aggressive push up bra in bed and I lie on my side, I can now get my boobs to touch together, and I can dream of glorious decolletage.

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    I do understand why some like to wear a bra and forms to bed.
    To have the idea of breasts when you wake up.
    For myself I never did this after the first time as I was not really comfortable.
    For the past three weeks I have had to wear a support bra 24/7 and I shall be glad when this is no longer necessary.
    It is so much nicer to have breasts that move independently rather than within the constriction of a bra.


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    Being married with an non-accepting wife, I truly miss being able to sleep enfemme that included lingerie but more so my long flowing negligees. As others have shared, waking to find oneself still a woman with breasts is definitely wonderful and beautiful...even if only for a few nanoseconds. However, as others have also shared, falling asleep with breasts does demand small adjustments.

    As we can see, all of us have differences in what feels good and makes enjoyment of this lifestyle so satisfying. Sweet dreams!
    Love to wear matching bras, panties, and garter belts

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    Most nights when its just my wife and me, I lounge around and sleep in lingerie. It is usually L'eggs Sheer Energy STW pantyhose. I love the huggy feeling and the way the pantyhose cling to my legs. Over the pantyhose I add a nylon brief panty and then a nylon night gown and a pair of ballet flats.. If it's cool I put on one of my women's robes.
    My wife is fine with my selection and has in the past bought me pantyhose and night gowns for gifts. And also suggested getting the flats to finish off the ensemble.

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    I routinely wear a nightgown to sleep in. I've done it for years, so it's nothing special to me anymore. I wake up and see a woman in the bathroom mirror with my long blond hair and breasts. The I start to sing with my relaxed vocal cords, and the sound of an oktavist (down to G1, 3 ledger lines below the bass staff) comes out, shattering the illusion.
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