Or Adventure In Gender Land I was comming back from a Dr. appointment two weeks ago and passed the local mall. I could not get it out of my head that I wanted to pierce my ears so I turned the RAM TOUGH into the lot and went to one of thouse little kiosks that did the task. I picked out the best yellow gold studs and sat down the young woman asked me which ear and I told her both she cracked a smile and the job was done in less than three minutes. I felt like I had done one of the most bravest things I had ever done or the dumbest one. I was on a high I got home and showed (not both) to my SO she stared and sead "it's not you" and "it's your body you do what you want to". Ok I sead to my self and went on with the day. The next day twenty hours later she passed me in the living room and got instantly mad, "Why didn't you talk this over with me first"(note; yesterday it was my body) "What is your boss going to say" "Anyone who sees you will know" " What will my father say ?" ( only care what mother In-law thinks) And the big one "I know where you are going with this !" she left and slamed the back door. We spoke not the rest of the day when I asked her into the bath before bed and told her to remove the right one, I bled like a stuck hog. The next day she noticed the right one gone and sead "I tought I took that one out so you could clean it I didn't know you were going to leave it out." She hugged me and we went on with the day. Nothing more was sead other than to ask if I was cleaning it (left ear) regularly. Myself I didn't care a little gender expression is good I see young men with both ears piersed often. So this is freaking me out now which ear is the gay one and which is the strait one ? LOLOLOLOLOLO Oh and I didn't tell about the belly button pierceing. LOLOLOLOL. Still dreaming of dangelees. Joy Carter