Hi Hon, Just came back from dancing at the club, so missed all of this. In a direct answer to you question, my response is "yes" based on who I am today. My feelings as a MTF CD tell me I would accept my SO if she wanted to dress as a man. That will never happen, however since she is totally a woman and as such cannot accept me as Ericka. I'm more tolerant, at least now. The answer is basically unresolved. I may be able to give you a close "second" however. It's not only acceptance by the SO but also friends and family. I'm trying an experiment. Tonight I went to the club as Ericka en homme, that is Ericka dressed as a man. Not my male self, Richard but my female self as "Eric". I wanted to see the reactions of everyone who Knows me as Ericka. A lot of the reactions were favorable , a lot puzzled, a lot totally confused. Sort of a reverse Victor/Victoria. Most had to do a triple take and asked me what the hell I was doing. I just told them that Ericka wanted to dress like a guy. Talk about mixed reactions.. I tried dancing as a guy but failed miserably as I guess dancing as a woman is "programmed" into me. Anyway, I got this idea from viewing the problems the FTM CD's have on their site. I wanted to see what it is like to walk in their "shoes" a little. I was surprised with the reactions of people even in "sub cultures" like ours, an education really. When questioned if I was going to change, I said no. I'm still the same basic person regardless of what I look like. Most people don't "get it" that you are still yourself but have feelings contrary to the so called "norm" regardless of what group of people it's presented to. The point of this experiment is to see how I'm treated if people perceive me as being different, especially my sisters. Sort of reverse discrimination as it were.While it may come as a shock to some, I've found so far that gender is over rated really and it's the person inside of that counts. I'm going to continue this experiment to see what happens as just doing it once may seem like a novelty to some. Don't worry Hon, Ericka isn't going anywhere but then again, neither is "Eric", at least not yet. Take care, Love, Ericka