Well it had to come off and I feel much better for it. I had my hair cut short as it was doin my head in. It's so much more me dunno who I was tryin to kid for the last eighteen months but I'm so glad I've had it cut. It's short into the back of my neck and like scruffy and spikey on top and shaped around my ears. Lol after I had it done my gf was calling me timothy and I told her I was gonna tell you all on here that she had picked my boi name lol she didn't object te he she hasn't used it again yet though. All the kids where I work said miss you look like a boy but that doesn't bother me I quite like it really. Just need to get hold of one of those tee shirts that will help hide my rather big boobs lol can't wait for that.